There’s a language that doesn’t need words. A language women have been using to their advantage since centuries and still continue to do so. In the present dating context, this issue needs a special mention because today’s times are about survival of the fittest. If you want to make a perfect impression on your guy on the first date, there’s no way you can do it without attracting him with your body language.

Let’s have a look at some tips regarding it!

Fluency is attaining the right body language not only has the advantage of attracting the right men but also cutting off wrong ones from your aura.

The Eye Contact!

Good eye contact is one of the most imperative measures to make an impression on the person. This gives a clear indication of the fact that you are a confident lady and completely in control of yourself. However, do not start staring on his face the moment you two are seated. The best way is to start off with some sidelong glances. Then gradually as the conversation flows, try establishing direct eye contact. If he turns to meet your gaze (which he will), immediately lower down your eyes and smile to yourself. This will indicate that you were watching him and are a bit embarrassed that he caught you doing that. This is a sure sign of interest and will give him enough cue to ignite his craving to know more about what’s going on inside you. Alright next, be bold and try holding his stare, flashing a subtle, open-lipped smile to tell him you like him in a way.

On the contrary, if there is a man eyeing you but you just not seem interested, the best way to show him this is to look away from him without looking back at him again. If you are completely put off with his demeanor when in conversation, start looking at the ceiling and all around the room. This will show your definite lack of interest in him. Where doing this might seem too rude but there are instances when you have to do it to ensure the guy does have a fair idea about what you think about him.

Thus you see, there’s so much you can convey to your man even without conveying a single thing verbally. God has gifted us with some great ways to express ourselves and women in particular should employ this to their best advantage.

You’ll get to read more of our tips on dating in our forth coming articles!

When you meet a guy for the first time what interests you in him the most? It’s perhaps his physical appearance that does the initial magic in your heart towards him. Like it’s said, “the first impression is the last impression”, the initial impression about a person is made by looks and personality. But with time there are several things that bring a person closer to you. Apart from physical appearance, intellectual and emotional attraction is very important for any relationship to work in the long run.

Who doesn’t like a charming face but talking of intellectual and emotional attractions, are we more attracted towards people whom we are similar to, or those from whom we are different? Its human nature to crave for things that one doesn’t have and not care about things one knows they posses. So it’s a more lavish thought to have a partner who is perfect i.e. who is a master of the things you lack in life and similarly it’s a pleasure to have qualities you feel your partner lacks!

A woman would always want her perfect man to be everything she wants and everything she needs and be everything from inside she wished she could be. Like it’s said about couples totally opposite in nature “even though they are different, they compliment each other in many ways”. In other words it’s not the difference in qualities but the complimentary nature that enhances the attraction. Such attractions modify into love pretty soon!

On the contrary, there are some people who prefer partners similar to them. Eventhough the general rule of the society is attraction of the similar; it at times becomes crucial from career point of view. Having a partner who is interested in the same field as you are and competing with him everyday when you actually look for support is not such a good feeling. Having someone who has a different lifestyle at times opens doors for a wider social circle and a life full of variety. But in such cases the point to be kept in mind is that both people should have understanding amongst each other. If people have different interests, then it becomes very important for them to respect each other’s opinion.

For opposites to click in a positive way they should have a comfortable level of acceptance and both should have one thing in common i.e. mentality. The rest of the qualities may be different.

So ladies, the next time you look for your satisfactory potential partner, try moving your eyes towards the opposite lot as well because you never know the man who is different from you may complete your precious life!

When anyone in a relationship sits down to examine hi/her relationship the first thing that we notice is the diminishing attraction. Many people face there relation turning sour. We can not understand the root cause of things taking a different shape.

What is this evil thing?
Think about it. When you first start in on a relationship, you do certain things naturally to avoid looking like you are too needy or desperate. You go on a date once every week or two initially instead of seeing the person daily right after you’ve first met. You try to space apart your calls and not call ten times a day. You try to slowly let the person find out about you as opposed to giving them a full biography when you first meet. You do all these things, right? And all these rituals serve to pace the relationship and create a sense of wanting more. In other words, people intrinsically understand that they need to have balance and self control in order to create attraction in the initial stages of dating.

However, often as people become closer and their personal space becomes more entangled with their partner as the relationship progresses, they start to lose this sense of balance and self control, which often manifests itself in needy and clingy behavior. This is something that must be avoided at all costs, since this is the biggest killer of attraction. This bears repeating- needy behavior is by far the biggest destroyer of relationships, probably even more so than infidelity.  The qualities that made you attractive to your partner in the beginning of the relationship are now abandoned, and when the exact opposite qualities are displayed, what happens? You guessed it- the opposite of attraction.

WHAT TO DO
So, how can these kinds of needy, clingy behavior by avoided? And how exactly is needy behavior displayed?  First, neediness stems from a lack of identity. Whenever you catch yourself thinking “I can’t live without this person” or “How awful my life would be without this person” you are well on your way to losing your personal identity within the relationship. A relationship requires the love, cooperation and shared life of two individuals, but they are still individuals. Once you start feeling like you are losing your own individuality, you definitely are on the wrong track and must take a step backward and reflect.

Neediness starts with a state of mind. How does this attitude express itself outwardly? Because you are losing your identity, you start to crowd your partner’s free time and personal space. Constantly seeking their attention, not giving them space, constantly worrying about the relationship, calling excessively, asking insecure questions, showing irrational jealousy or possessiveness, panicking if you are apart, etc, are all good examples of needy behavior. Remember, neediness is an irrational mindset. The needy individual feels like they are losing control, so they try harder to regain that control. Unfortunately, instead of helping the relationship, it only serves to push the other person further away.

Remember the kiss of death to any relationship is needy behavior. It all starts with a mindset involving loss of control and individuality.  The best way to rectify this if you find yourself slipping down this slippery slope is to recognize your initial thought patterns and stop them before they affect your behavior. In the end, actions stem from feelings, and feeling come from thoughts. You are in control of your thoughts, so you’re emotions is a choice.