One of my last articles spoke about each one of us having a relationship pattern. These patterns talk about what kind of people we have been attracting in our environment, what have been our behavior patterns and also what will be the eventual outcome of it. This may take you by surprise but we can figure out a great deal about your forth coming relationship based on your history.
Many a times I see women unable to understand as to why do they end up confronting men who are abusive in nature. Every time they start anew they think that their new partner is certainly different from the rest but after a couple of weeks seemingly out of nowhere, the same abusive traits of the former boyfriend or husband begin to manifest in him. And all this invariably leaves you with utmost pain and agony. So what do you do?

Well, some women do gather the courage of limiting their emotional dependency on such men and even leaving them in few cases. But let me tell you that this is just a temporary exercise for you.

Women certainly don’t sought such men intentionally, but their subconscious was attracting them to these type of men based on their low self esteem.

So the first step is to identify such patterns in your relationship cycle. And if you willingly pay more attention to patterns rather than fulfilling your intense desires, you’ll see that you have finally broken the chain. You will no longer confront men with similar behavioral patterns and indeed end up with a wonderful marriage.

So in a nutshell, women who desire to find the right man were destined to continue their regression regardless of any amount of relationship advice or intense therapy they undertook. It is only when the person is willing to take the responsibility for their actions, (patterns here), it is then that they attain the ability to change their providence. After all, we now know that patterns don’t lie.

You’ve met the man of your dreams. The man you want to spend the rest of your life with. You know he’s the nicest guy you’ve ever known. At this point you are wondering, just how much about my past do I need to reveal to this man?

In the best of all possible worlds, we can tell each other anything and everything. But the dilemma is whether to tell him all or not.

No way in the world should you ever tell your future husband your dark secrets. Are you totally insane? Do you want him to be bringing these secrets up for the duration of your time together? The answer to that is no. I’m telling you straight up.

Everyone who has not been with the same person from the time you were young will have some type of past. So you have a past that you may not be proud of. And sure if you tell him in the beginning of your relationship it will all be great and he will be supportive for you. Then you will feel so good about yourself for telling him.

And believe me you will both forget about it one day. I would advise not to tell your husband if you know that your dark secrets will hurt his feeling. Not telling is not trying to be dishonest but to avoid from having misunderstanding between husband and wife.

I believe that a woman doesn’t need to tell her future husband her darkest secrets. Her secrets are hers alone what she has in her closet is her business as long as it’s not hurting her future husband in the process he doesn’t need to know. Not knowing is almost always better than knowing. The women could’ve had an old relationship that she doesn’t want her future husband to know about. Things like that are private and should be kept to yourself unless you want people to know. Relationships are very important when coming to the topic of marriage it’s really important to be honest about the things that need to be told.

If your husband asks you a personal question, tell him you don’t feel like sharing the past.

Don’t lie because one lie turns into two and so on and so fort. Women and Men are very complex and different creatures and Women will want to share most things men would never share. Do you believe that a man would tell his future wife that he had slept with all these women before you? Would you want to know about his relationships before you it’s a two way street. In conclusion I think that be honest, but it is healthy to keep things to your self. Don’t spill all the beans. If you are going to keep secrets away from your partner be truthful about it. It’s really hard to be honest and secretive.

Some secrets are worth telling as a way of strengthening the relationship, but others are the kind that should be drawn out in time as long as they aren’t ones that have the potential of ruining the relationship. at the same time but life isn’t supposed to be easy.

A kiss can mean so much, or nothing at all. Remember when you were five years old and you thought kissing was yucky? It wasn’t until adolescence that the meaning of a kiss was slowly revealed to us. Between giggles we confessed our first kisses, our secret initiation into the “adult” world. No one talks about kisses anymore. Oh, we read about them in romance novels or see them on the big screen, but no one discusses them in hushed whispers between blushes and giggles. We are adults. Kissing is usual for us now. Most of us kiss our partners without thinking at least once a day. But don’t you think a kiss should always be special?
•    What is a Kiss?

A kiss is more than the sharing of lips and breath. It is a mingling of hearts and souls. A slight tingle, a funny feeling in the tummy, a racing heart, is to be expected. A kiss is an intimate connection to another human being and a simple way to express love and affection. What could be a better way to seal the promise of love?
Trade-off Kiss: One of you takes a cinnamon candy and the other a mint. While French kissing, switch them from time to time.

Breath Kiss: In a hot moment - creates major keenness - barely touch lips with lips slightly parted…then breath your partner’s breath… moving heads slowly to experience different sensations…lips touching on and off slightly…it is a very teasing sort of kiss and builds passion enormously.

Chew Kiss: Tell your partner to place their tongue deeply into your mouth…you VERY GENTLY “chew” on the back part of their tongue…do not suck. This will create a sensation in other places that can be very exciting!

Touch Kiss: You do this after you and your partner have Frenched or really kissed a lot. What you do is just simply touch tongues - like the tip of your tongue. You may want to move it around but you don’t have to. You don’t do it inside your mouth you do it out in the open.

Underwater Kiss: Have your partner hold their breath underwater and when he or she taps you give them air.

Moving Kiss: Make sure a bed or couch or chair is behind your partner and when French kissing gently push your partner onto the chair or whatever is behind them.

Flavor Kissing: Put a piece of long lasting gum in your mouth just before you and your partner French kiss. While kissing pass the gum back and forth, and see how long it takes for the flavor to run out!

Chin Kiss: Hold your partner’s chin with your middle, index, and thumb and tilt their head in the right direction. Continue to hold it as you kiss.

Suck Kissing: This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner’s lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing: This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you’ve kissed a few times before; otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing: This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

Vacuum Kissing: This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you’re sucking the air from your partner.

Cordial Kissing: Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner’s mouth. Only take a very small sip.