Archive for October, 2008

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AFFAIR! LOVE! BREAK!

Men should realize what dating errors can dump there romantic graph.
According to the ethics, you need to check these signs before going so far. This will prevent you from severe depression on heart break and you will not feel that dejected if you get to know the reality early in the relationship. There are things you come across and then you decide you can’t go further in pursuing in the relationship. Some deal breakers are not that instant until a date is in progress.

Everyone in an affair at a point must have gone through a slight hint which could have been a deal breaker for example, an immediate request for a cheque at a restaurant. These are the deals which at some point scores above than love, where acceptance takes in charge. Mainly women do not like Infidelity of any kind, Lying, Drinking, Using drugs, Pornography and Abusing.

Listing down the ten best deal breakers women happen to dump guys on-

• Hairy backs generally tend to be the top of the list of deal breakers.

• “Smoking.”

• “Blatant Rudeness. Impatience. Yelling in public or exhibits road rage is one big no!!!

• Bad teeth or bad breath.

• For some it’s the sandals!! Yes men wearing sandals or flip flops are an instant turn offs. Infact sandals in any form just aren’t attractive on men.

• Bad grammar is one of the top ten deal breakers. Nowadays, to an extent everyone should at least be fluent in writing an email!!!

• The three A’s - an alcoholic, an addict, or an actor is one which men generally tend to do and women hate it.

• One biggest mistake he can do is that he Pauses during sex to check his Blackberry

• His lifestyle- if he wears bigger earrings than you, wears sunglasses indoors, or has even worn jean shorts!!!

• On your first date you notice when your boyfriend arrives he has had four glasses of wine.

To save your relationship you need to be frank enough with your partner to discuss whatever you want. An open communication is a must. Don’t expect too much either and trust your date.
To find some one fuck every once in a while is relatively easy, but finding someone to spend your life takes a lot more effort. Sometimes you could to compromise on a deal breaker, but settling always comes with an emotional price tag.

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From break up to make up

How to get your ex-boyfriend back if he has a new girlfriend? This is a tricky one. When your boyfriend dumps you, you’re not faithfully happy with not being with him…but there are, however, things you can do to get back on your feet and even get him back!

He left you it’s probably because of one of two things: either you let him slide away, or you drove him away. Some tips are:

• If you guys hang out or are in the same place with a group of friends. Try to avoid him. Try to keep your distance. And if he converse with you, then keep it simple and sturdy. Don’t make it seem like you’ve wanted him to talk to you.

• When you’re chatting with a group of friends. And he happens to be one of them. Always try to avoid his conversations… For ex: you and friends are talking about something. He says something too… Act like you didn’t hear it. Act like you’re interested in what others are saying.

• Sort your life out. Make it sound like your life is better without him… And seem happy. It won’t take the pain away straight away, bit it’ll give you a focus. In the meantime, you may or may not meet someone new. But at least you’ll be having a more interesting life. In the period in-between, stay in touch with your ex as a friend, and be there for him through thick and thin, because if his current relationship ends in tears, he will see what a great “mate” you have been and will be crying on YOUR shoulder.

• You should just be there for him when he has trouble with his girlfriend and give him advice, and then sooner or later he’ll realize how stupid he was for ever losing you, and see that he’s lost someone who’ll listen to him and understand him.

• Here’s some good advice, ACT LIKE YOU DONT CARE! He will eventually give up, and start to realize what he’s missing. But if he suddenly asks you to forgive and forget, start over…say no. He is just gonna get more desperate to get you back. Then when you think the time is right, say yes, he will treat you like a queen! Trust me.

• NEVER CALL. Make him miss it! A sexy woman with a LIFE is such a turn on to a guy. If he calls you up just to talk
hit it off tell him you’re busy but will call him back later. Then call him back two days later. Let him know no matter the situation you are there. But for now just let him go!! Trust me! Things will work out maybe he just wants to be friends with you.

• He was engrossed to you because he felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his emotional needs. Be positive around him. Laugh and smile. Don’t look at him in the eye if you hung out. Look and smile at others.

• Use the past to your benefit. Wear his favorite color, have his favor song if he calls you. You get the drift. If he’s ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with him. Be the person he fell in love with. This alone might not do it, but it’s definitely a helpful step.

TRUST ME… THEY WORK!!!!

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Music and love

Music has been synonymous with love and passion as far as history can be remembered. One of the many heart rendering ways to mend discorded relationships is the soulful sound of the music. It has the miraculous ability to transport you to a totally different world and bring back fond memories that leave you nostalgic. Over the years the number of love songs written by various artists all over prove this fact immensely leaving no doubt therein.

It’s a harmonious relationship that brings peace to the mind and maybe helps you and overcome emotional distress also. Love is a strong feeling, it cuts across ages, caste, creed and sex.it can be in any form and in any relation.parents, spouse, friends all form the gamut of that huge circle. Our whole life depends on this feeling that personally doesn’t cost a dime but can make people stoop down low or rise in glory. It can make them go into depression and become morbid to the world or it can make them live life like never before. The birth of a child fills the hearts of that household with immense love and joy that even if the family wasn’t together, it would sure come because of the unbound happiness. Music again has the innate ability of bringing immense joy. With every new genre that hit the world be it hard rock from iron maiden or soft classic pop from George Michael it all was a rage. The electric sync in music with Michael jack son’s album thriller got him instant fame and glory and people were all aping him. It had brought about a revolution. Music and love go hand in hand. Where there is love there is music and nevertheless this tradition continues. When it’s a gal’s night out partying numbers from Dixie chiks can be quite a hit. When you are out sad and lonely listening to a ballad classic rock from white snake or u2s albums can be quite soothing. Over the years movies have been made with a number of love songs too. When the soldiers are at war they are made to listen to music that’s patriotic and make them watch movies on the same lines. Remember the movie ‘border’ truly depicting it. Its music and love, which makes the world, go round. The similarity being both cost money in their own way, one to express the love and be materialistic and the other to make it. Dwell in the two worlds and interlink them together and see the magic it creates!!!!!!!!!!