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Dumping is truly an art form. The more you date, reject and finally dump, the more the lines drip from your mouth like honey. Never stay in a relationship past its sell by date. while the romantic edge haze of being in love or the initial reservations of an arranged marriage may behind you to certain aspects of your future spouse’s personality, it is important to look for early warming signs that tell you whether your partner is actually right for you. Let’s take an example as the girl says “no goodbye” to the guy when asked if he could call inspite of the fact that the girl spent the whole day with him. At this the guy’s heart explodes into a billion fragments.
Ain’t these gals becoming wiser? Well “it’s better to lie than to tell the truth” that is what girls are going for. The very high of falling love or getting married often keeps us from focusing on the not so good side of our partner. While none of us is perfect it is important to observe our partner and check for signs that display a personality that may be dysfunctional, Abusive or controlling. These signs are early indicators of whether your relationship will last or not.
Technology has made life easier. If you are a chicken to break up with someone face to face then text messages are a painless option. All you need to do is give a concise reason for your decision and mention that when he calls you, you will explain in detail. The beauty in this is that very often they don’t call back!
There are 3 biggest reasons for a break up:
• Lack of communication
• Black mailing
• Involvement of third person
While one doesn’t advocate rigidity or a deliberate seeking out of flaws. It is important to look for these warning signs. What do you do when the truth is hurtful or silly? Simply blame yourself make an excuse about needing to do soul searching to find your true purpose of life. You could use anything as long as it spares you from listening to the faint shattering of his heartstrings. It hurts less when he knows the fault is with you and not him.
Of course, should he have cheated on you or hit you or indulged in any other despicable act, sparing his feelings goes out the window. No matter how you choose to dump his degenerate self-just do it!
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