You would be surprised to know how many couples around you are either into or seriously considering open marriages. When relationship ends, is a sudden break desirable over a sow tapering off? Is it that easier to part ways and overcome the trauma? Nowadays, who wants to waste time mourning the loss of one love when another is just waiting to happen, what with enough options and a more open attitude towards love and loving!

What is the idea of saying hurtful things to each other or playing a blame game? there is a never any right time to say goodbye.” the thread just had to be cut, neat and clean.”

An open marriage is not a bad option as far as sexual need is being fulfilled and the three of them are quite happy about the fact.” an open marriage is an alliance where couples don’t nurture any reservations about seeking sexual gratification outside their marriage. Here the spouses share a transparent relationship”, says psychologist Seema Hingorani.

Where is the question of mortality when both partners are voluntarily experimenting? In fact lots of couples discover new meaning in the presence of a third or fourth party. Open marriages are a system designed to give partners space to grow as individuals first.

Climbing out of their comfort closet, couples are rewriting marriage vows. If the relationship is open. It doesn’t affect prior opportunities and is conducted with honesty, no hearts shattered.

If all this doesn’t work break up is the safest option. It’s preferable to get used to the idea of being without a partner than to decide how, when and why to split. Today most relationships end in such bitterness that couples would not want to see each other’s face.

It really depends on person to person how she takes or reacts in the situation and how she wants the relationship to evolve. You need to just change your priorities while drifting away which ultimately leads to a final break where you never would like to even see each others faces. Also in some cases, the couple may end up as friends and live their lives in much better way without much of heart break and depressions. . It is seen that People suffer more on a sudden said good bye.

You can never say when the right time to say good bye is, but we know that we got to go our separate ways and I know it is hard but it is the real life span of a relationship.

Everyone has dreams about marriage. All of us dream to own better life with colours of joy and happiness. But inmost cases, we may have to bear the pain of sad ending. Never care, many face it as another challenge in life. But the unfortunate fact of life is it is easy to get married, but not so easy to get divorce. In most cases, people avoid opting for divorce especially if there are children involved. If a divorce is a must fop the life to go ahead, then there are several things you can do to help make the divorce process as smooth as possible.

1. Always try to make the process of divorce as short as possible. The longer it goes on the better it becomes a hard task. Always look for early settlements. Look out for a better divorce lawyer.

2. Try to establish your financial independence as soon as possible. Put an end to the use of joint bank accounts and set up your own personal account. Cancel the joint credit cards as soon as possible.

3. Always keep the children fully informed as to what’s happening. Never use to access to your children as a way to punish your husband. Make sure he too doesn’t do the same.

4. Keep a record of all correspondence as courts believe written correspondence more than hearsay.

5. Always have a private mail box for all mails. Store all personal things in that.

6. Always accept the fact that you need emotional support and use friends and family at this time. Try t get friends who could help at any time.

7. Make sure of an open line of communication between you and your husband. Try to get a mutual settlement if possible.

8. Never share your relation with husband to anyone other than lawyer. This will reflect well on you in court.

9. Keep calm at the time. Never loose curb over emotions.

Break up these days is nothing new. All of us look for new people in our lives The personal rejection is in fact so painful that it makes you feel as though you’ve been injured. You tend to feel that the wound will never heal.

Losing someone you love leaves you felling depressed and gloomy all the time as if that’s the end of the world. Start on a fresh page in your life and try to be a better person.

Tips that will help you get over being dumped:

• Never feel that if he doesn’t’ come back, no one else will ever fill that gap in your life and you will never find love elsewhere. If he doesn’t care about you why should you.

• You must make yourself understand that you can still have another relationship. It might not be the same as the old one. It will be equally fulfilling and probably better.

• If you want to start a new positive future you need to finally accept that your ex-partner has gone and will not coming back to you ever. Believe in yourself and be determined to forget the past relationship you had.

• Pamper yourself go in for a makeover that will make you look different,lively and charming.

• Family is always there in your time of need and should be the first people you look to lean on. They will help you come out of this grief.

• Confide in your friends and talk to them as much as you can about your ex. You will know you are getting better when you realize that you are actually bored with the subject yourself. Turning to your friends is the best way to start healing.

• Get rid of all the things that remind you of him.

• Think about his flaws. It might help you get over him.

• Don’t be in a hurry to get into a new relationship this might make your situation even worse.

• Never send him an e-mail asking not to speak to you ever again, or begging him to take you back. You don’t want to show him that you still feel for him.

• Work on certain aspects that need attention in your life. Keep yourself occupied and busy.

It is never easy when a relationship ends. The memories are still fresh, the thoughts and feelings still exist.A heartbreak actually helps you learn what you want in your next relationship.The above mentioned tips can help you overcome your break-up.