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Mon, January 26, 2009 8:28 am By sarah
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How to get rid of Jealousy in a Relationship
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Jealousy is a very common word when we talk about relationships. Jealousy is a feeling of envy to others. It is a mandatory emotion that exists in a relationship. And it is difficult to do away with. Most of the relations end because of this “J factor”. Finishing a relationship because of jealousy is not an ideal way to end. It often happens that you do not like the way your husband or lover behaves with other women around and you feel jealous. It sometimes creates troubles in a relation to an extent that it comes to an end. Though it’s not something intentional but still you should try and keep a check on yourself.
There are solutions to every problem and after all jealousy is an emotion. Emotions can be nurtured with love, care, trust and understanding. These are certain ways to tackle this emotional problem. They are
If you feel jealous and get irritated that your men looks at someone else then you need to say it to him instead of getting irritated. You need to confront your partner and discuss the matter. Talk it out; do not keep it to yourself. He will be flattered that you love her so much.
And try and make him understand that his behavior creates trouble for you and your relation. And if he will be concerned he will stop it.
To prevent this behavior, you should not encourage him. It is important that you love and find ways to show him regularly how much he means to you and how devoted you are to him. Slowly with time, he will feel secure again and the jealous streak will not taint the relationship anymore.
Keep calling him and tell him that you miss him when he is traveling. Try and keep in touch. Do not call when he is at work. Call before bedtime etc.
Try to Surprise him with small gifts. It could be a bouquet of flowers that says “I miss you.” Or “love you forever”. Simple gestures like this slowly add on and you and he both will feel secure and loved always.
Jealousy can be resolved when a partner articulates this feeling and the other partner is sensitive and caring enough to listen and take action against this innate feeling. If a couple really wants to be together and survive the hardships of life then an emotion of jealousy should be get rid of. Slowly with time, the jealous streak will not spoil the relationship anymore. With time he will understand that his loyalty belongs to you. And you can have a happy relation all again…!!!





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