If you have failed to bring your man into the bed to love you as you have always wanted or if your love life has taken a backseat all these years, it is time for you to make the first move by following these easy-to-follow steps.

Surprise and attract your lover by moaning in bed, especially when he least expect you to do so. This will motivate him to fulfill your sexual fantasies and reveal all of himself before you so that you can feel your man like never before.

If it is the rainy season in your part of the world, leave the umbrella out of the hand and ask him to walk a few steps with you in the rain. Your body, wet in the rain, will make him notice your assets and the lovemaking session will surely not be any far.

If you have always said no to oral sex, it is time for you to change yourself to make him happy and he will surely respond by offering the tongue goody to you. In case you are new to the world of orals, it is good to have a video or CD and learn the art of tasting your man.

Do not just lie in the bed for the heck of it, make some moves, encourage him to feel you, touch you, and taste you. By being expressive, you will let him know that his efforts are really enjoyed by you and he makes you complete, satisfied, and special.

Before you two start making love (oral, anal, or vaginal), take some good time for foreplay by indulging into kissing and caressing.

Performance anxiety, in context of sexual encounters, is a cause of concern for both men and women. This is one of the biggest reasons why the spontaneous flow of sexual feelings and actions is often obstructed as seen in many couples. The factor is also responsible for lowered self-esteem, relation discord, and sexual dysfunction that are common among couples.

If you want to stay away of these issues and add the fun quotient to sex life, it is time for you to have a rethink and act right by following these healthy sex tips.

Before the two of you start making love, it is important for you to indulge in foreplay at least for five to ten minutes. This will not only add fun to your sexual life but both of you will also be able to relax significantly and spend quality time with each other. Your male partner can stimulate the clitoris with finger or tongue and you can proceed for an oral job. In addition to that, you two can always engage in kissing and licking. You can even have a shower together, before or after sex to explore each other’s body.

If the two of you have some inhibitions, it is best to have alcohol that can help you relieve all worldly tensions and enjoy each other like never before.

It is highly important for you two to note that bedroom is not all about sex. You need to try different locations (such as dining table, kitchen, swimming pool, bathtub, or couch) in or outside the home.

Movies of the past always demonstrated that women are shy to ask for a kiss from their boyfriend and kissing was all about the man leaning in slowly to kiss his girlfriend, who was waiting for the lips to meet, with closed eyes. The face was tilted slightly upward and then come the villain porch light and there was guilt all over the two in kissing mood.

Today? Times have changed and the fairer sex is opening up to ask for a kiss from their partner.

If you want a kiss from your boyfriend and too shy to ask for it, here are some tips that can help you.

Get the right look

You have to dress for the occasion but do not go short. Wear the right clothes and prefer the clothes and colors of your partner’s choice. Apply makeup and treat your lips for the special event but do not over-apply lipstick so that he just cannot resist your luscious lips.

Don’t get nervous

Be confident of what you are doing and do not create hurdles in the path of your partner when you want him to do what he is about to do - kiss.

Have minty fresh breath

Pop in a breath mint to make your breath feels fresh and inviting that should be more than enough for him to kiss you.

Establish physical contact

Try to touch him on the shoulders or lips with your hands; this will set the stage for kissing. Maintain eye contact and let him know that you want to be kissed by him, make him special and he will definitely do the honors.

Get close and say what is on your mind

Pretend to tell him a secret and come close to his ears. Have a feel of the ears with your tongue and let him know that you are ready for a mouth-watering kiss.