Wish you a very Happy New year my friends! I pray the dawn of this New Year brings for you all successes in life and immense sunshine in your love life! Let’s pledge to make this year unique by living life true to our own spirit and turning in into a spring of happiness for yourself as well your beloved!
The New Year is standing before us, its arms spread wide to welcome us into a new future! How well we employ this New Year to bring in all the untouched happiness for us is now our prerogative so here I am with some subtle advice for all my readers. All year long you have reading solutions or advices to all kids of fluxes that occur in a relationship. But in this one, I’ll tell you about a secret path that’ll help you discover the real being in your partner, the innermost voice of his/her which makes him/her the individual he/she is.

This year pledge to learn the unique love language of your beloved! Whether you have just gotten together or are in a relationship since long, there it is a unique love language spoken by each one of us in our own way. Some let the silence do the talking, some try to come up with thoughts in a subtle way and some speak it with hugs and kisses! If you have been wondering what is it that has been lacking in your relationship despite you trying to do whatever you possibly can, it is this thing which you might be losing upon.

The fact of the matter is not all individuals are vocal about it. In fact no one is vocal about it. This is one thing which needs to be discovered and once you know it, it greatly contributes to the emotional strength of the bond shared by you.

Even in your innate moments, your partner may not be able to openly divulge his/her desire. In the process of knowing each other through talking or just spending some time together by being around, you will have to observe what is it that your partner likes. Some like to be bestowed with little surprises, some feel taking a day off with your partner for no reason makes them feel special, some may just love holding out hand silently while walking beside you. These are some simple things you’ll learn only if you try to observe with patience and compassion the emotional responses of your lover.

Hence if you still do not know the love language of your beloved, take this opportunity to now discover it in your unique way and you’ll see that doing little acts of compassion for your partner will fill him/her with so much warmth and ardor for you that you never might have imagined!

Knowing each other’s love language will then open doors to a new genre of bonding for you and you’ll actually discover what true is really is. Living this I would say will be like living true to one’s spirit!

One great thing about New Year is that it brings with it a barrel full of opportunities to do little favors for every one around us and especially our loved ones! So let’s take this moment to see how you can make this New Year really memorable for your special one.

The threshold of the New Year brings with it great hope and a dawn of unlimited happiness and success for us. And in order to ensure that everything in the New Year happens just as you’ve desired, you must begin it with thoughts and action most positive and healthy. Forget all the differences you’ve been confronting with your partner so far. Forget the times when you thought that you’ve been misunderstood. Instead pledge that you’ll become more understanding for your partner so that if any unlike thing happens, you can make a more patient move rather than a giving a hasty reaction.

Begin the New Year with absolute positivity in your heart and a promise to herald only good times in your life and those around you. And what can be a better way to do it than planning a beautiful surprise for your beloved in a most special way! If you want to really break the ice you can send him cards each day of the week accompanied by a small gift with a different message on it each day. Some cards can be serious, some funny and some emotional or romantic. Choose the gift according to the mood of the message you are writing in the card. And keep the brightest gift and the card of all for the special day .i.e. the New Year’s Eve!
 
You can do all of this by preparing a day-by-day calendar and then deciding what to do at which day. In the message you can tell him why you love him so much. And to make it more realistic you can narrate some of the funniest, romantic and the silliest moments you have spent together.

And finally on the d-day, you can make it big by inviting him to your house but not giving him the least idea about your plan that day. A great way of celebrating this day with him could be having a Jacuzzi bubble bath filled with rose petals followed by a candle lit dinner. You can place a can of strawberries with a bottle of wine on your table to set the mood for a perfect evening. A weekend getaway can also make for a great way to spend the weekend together.

The idea is to enter the New Year with your romantic best so that you stay away from all the blues and glitches and make the most of it. Wish you all the best and a bright and vivacious New Year!