When you meet a guy for the first time what interests you in him the most? It’s perhaps his physical appearance that does the initial magic in your heart towards him. Like it’s said, “the first impression is the last impression”, the initial impression about a person is made by looks and personality. But with time there are several things that bring a person closer to you. Apart from physical appearance, intellectual and emotional attraction is very important for any relationship to work in the long run.

Who doesn’t like a charming face but talking of intellectual and emotional attractions, are we more attracted towards people whom we are similar to, or those from whom we are different? Its human nature to crave for things that one doesn’t have and not care about things one knows they posses. So it’s a more lavish thought to have a partner who is perfect i.e. who is a master of the things you lack in life and similarly it’s a pleasure to have qualities you feel your partner lacks!

A woman would always want her perfect man to be everything she wants and everything she needs and be everything from inside she wished she could be. Like it’s said about couples totally opposite in nature “even though they are different, they compliment each other in many ways”. In other words it’s not the difference in qualities but the complimentary nature that enhances the attraction. Such attractions modify into love pretty soon!

On the contrary, there are some people who prefer partners similar to them. Eventhough the general rule of the society is attraction of the similar; it at times becomes crucial from career point of view. Having a partner who is interested in the same field as you are and competing with him everyday when you actually look for support is not such a good feeling. Having someone who has a different lifestyle at times opens doors for a wider social circle and a life full of variety. But in such cases the point to be kept in mind is that both people should have understanding amongst each other. If people have different interests, then it becomes very important for them to respect each other’s opinion.

For opposites to click in a positive way they should have a comfortable level of acceptance and both should have one thing in common i.e. mentality. The rest of the qualities may be different.

So ladies, the next time you look for your satisfactory potential partner, try moving your eyes towards the opposite lot as well because you never know the man who is different from you may complete your precious life!

“Super sex” the new generation word. Is this new entry in your routine list too or is just a word you aware of it? The dictionary defines it as “sex, but better”. Is just getting more creative and which gives you a feeling of ecstasy moreover with perfect postures keeping you fit and fresh.

Well to tell you in this kind of era where super sex takes the front seat in your relationship you need to really be into it to know much better about your partner in love. So its clear people are putting a lot of thought into the act .when it comes to thinking, it was about letting your brain take a backseat and allowing your body to do in the backseat! But no, brain is all new accessories. Infect there are people who are differentiating between ‘whole brain sex’ and all too common regular sex. To take it on the brainy side of it when a person self stimulates her anterior amygdale through simple exercises during intercourse, him or her automatically and spontaneously experience extended and intensified orgasms. So, super sex is about being able to bring in the part of brain that lies dormant during the sexual act play. , so that you get intense pleasure. This is not the only theory behind it, there are several methods that people adopt to super size their sexual endeavors.

There is an obsession among people to become ‘sex achievers’. There are books, television, magazine articles which are increasingly featuring about getting it all right. These things are buying into the hype that turns a natural act of love making in to a three ring circus. Apparently sexexcercise has been replaced by Supersexercise where it’s not enough to be acrobatic and aim for the big O, but to try and substitute food cravings with sexual excitement and indulge in oral satisfaction of a different sort all the time, any time.

And there are sexual sex sling, a complicated contraption with cuffs, straps and even a headrest which claims to help with penetration and G-spot stimulation, ensuring you achieve-yes, what else Super Sex!

It is great that humans are looking to better the quality of their experience and regarding sex as something that can be enhanced. As long as couples work from genuine info rather than sleaze, trying to achieve super sex is a healthy tend!

For any relation to flourish, it has to be nurtured with love, understanding and trust. But the fragile bond of love is broken if one is less dedicated to the relationship. This holds true when you love your boyfriend more than he loves you. You are more sincere and committed towards your relationship and hence prone to feel the depth of misery when you realize that you might be loosing him.

However, there is still time to salvage your relationship and woo him back. A little dose of retrospection, commitment and communication can do wonders to your fading relationship and give it a new lease of life.

So where do you start once you have realized that he doesn’t love you anymore. Here are a few steps that will help you pave your way to get him back.

Step 1
Retrospect on your relationship: The initial and the most important step for you is to apprehend why the relationship broke in the first place. Think about what went wrong. What were the reasons for its deteriorating? If the reasons were related to abuse-physical or mental or both then think long and hard before setting up your mind to save this relationship.

Step 2
Be ready to commit: Every relationship demands commitment and more so in your case since the foundation has gone weak. Be ready to devout time and energy to the relationship. But that certainly doesn’t mean that you start neglecting yourself. In fact go in for a make over and try to woo your boyfriend back. Socialize with your friends and try to keep yourself happy.

Step 3
Communicate: Invite and encourage him to talk to you. Be honest and open about your feelings. Ask if what went wrong was somehow related to what you’ve been doing. Your ex may have a different viewpoint!

Step 4
Be yourself: remember your boyfriend was in love with you once because you were unique, you were YOU. Don’t loose your identity and try to be someone you are not. It will only make matters worse. Be the same person he fell in love with.

Step 5
Stop clinging: It may sound weird but believe me it helps. Stop clinging and don’t sound desperate to get back. Give him a breather and let him also contemplate on the relationship. He will call you as and when he is ready.

It is easy to break off a relationship. But it is an uphill task to mend it and move forward- to forgive and forget. However, remember that the task may be difficult but not impossible if you are ready to work on it. With the above mentioned steps you have bright chances of winning your ex back.