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How to deal with a Workaholic Partner

Is your partner a workaholic? Do you know how to manage with your workaholic partner? It’s very normal these days when people spend most of their time in their offices. Having a workaholic partner has its good side and bad.
Good side is that he wants to progress in his career, earn more money and wants the family to live a comfortable life.

The flip side of having a workaholic partner is that he has no time for his girlfriend or wife. He forgets special occasions. At times both the partners feel unloved and neglected. There is a lack of understanding between the two and the relationship usually comes to an end. There is no easy way to break a workaholic habit of your partner. It’s just that he needs to know the value of his wife or girlfriend and she still loves him and needs him.

Tips To Manage a Workaholic Partner

1) Make sure he keeps his personal life and professional life at a distance. And do not allow him to blend them both together.

2) Ask him to finish office work at office. And convince him not to bring work home, if isn’t an urgency.

3) If he has to finish some work over the weekend then allot certain time of the day when he can finish his work and later both of you can have an enjoying weekend.

4) Try to take out time for just two of you or family together. You can also Plan out a good lunch or a dinner. Then he will have to take out time for you.

5) Buy tickets to a game or a movie he wanted to go for at weekends. You both will enjoy each other’s company a lot.

6) Become his gym or morning walk companion. In a way you both can spend a quality time also together and keep a check on health too.

7) Encourage him at intervals and support him in his business. From time to times advice him on various issues.

8) You also can go out for late night long drive. There you both can talk which is very important for any relation to be happy and long.

9) Be patient and understanding with him. With time you will be able to change him. When he will start enjoying your company more he himself will plan to spend time together.

Remember that Life is not always perfect but adjusting and cooperation with those we love the most can really help both of you together and may solidify your relation. So don’t worry just make little efforts and see him change….

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Signs of a Troubled Relationship

How is your relation with your partner going? Is he troubling you? Or you do not feel happy with him anymore? There are some signs which show that you are not in a healthy relation. Read these signs and verify them with your own relation with your partner:

1) Follow your instincts: though he loved you a lot in past and you both made a lovely couple
but now you lately sense that love and attraction is fading away. Discuss it with him; find out what is not going right. It is best to identify and clarify expectations.

2) Verify your interest: Indifference can act poisonous to your relationship. If you find your guy is not interested in you anymore, and he makes excuses to go out with you or to meet you. Then you should verify whether he is interested in you anymore or not.
3) Check your intimacy:  are you both enjoying your relation? Are you personal enough to be happy together? If your partner gives explanation to be intimate and ignores your playful behavior, it is clear that he is not interested in this relationship anymore.
4) Does he abuse you? If he does, then I think its troubling you somewhere. Abusive relationship should not be tolerated. Walk out the moment he abuses you physically or verbally. A man, who doesn’t respect you, definitely doesn’t deserve you.
5) Doesn’t he surprise you anymore? He was the one who used to surprise you every now and then. If he has stopped everything now then you should know that something is erroneous. Being busy at work is reasonable but avoiding calls or catching up on weekends for movie or coffee is surely his way of brushing you off.
6) Is your partner controlling your acts? Some people want everything to happen according to them. They always want things their way and if it isn’t then they are morose. He is very dominating. Think twice, if you will be happy with such a person or will be able to enjoy your life.
7) Does he always look for your mistakes? Easy way of getting rid of a partner is by constantly finding faults and analyzing them. Never let such individuals break your self confidence. Move on to a person who appreciates the way you are.

Now as you have seen that these are the signs which tell you that you are in troubled relationship
. Just forget this relation. Though that is not easy but life has to move on.
You are worth a better partner. Just stay happy..!!!

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what your nightwear reveals about you and sex

Sleepwear that you slip into before getting into bed tells tons-n-tons about your sexual personality. Sleep is the most relaxing thing in the world and so is sex….the sleepwear is somehow related to your kind of sexual desire. Let’s see what your kind is.

DRAWSTRING PANTS AND A TANK TOP
Sexy on top, chaste on bottom-a combo that could indicate the wearer’s level of desire isn’t always at full throttle. But once her lust is lit, watch out- her libido can be ravenous, says Diana Wiley, Ph.D., a sex therapist at ULCA. Women who are very aware and proud of their body’s abilities-on the mattress or the yoga ay tend to go for this athletic inspired ensemble.

T-SHIRT
When a woman wears a tee to bed, the message is clear, regardless of what’s written on it. ”she doesn’t have fancy tastes or require lots of variety,” says NYC psychotherapist Jane Greer, Ph D, author of how could you do this to me? Straightforward but tender sex fulfills her nooky needs- Hold the handcuffs, please. “Feeling protected and secure is her top priority”, says Greer

TOP-AND-SHORTS SET
The two-piece coordinating outfit is just that an-outfit. “The woman who goes for it is very feminine”, says Greer. Accordingly, this perfectionist might throw a towel down to cover the sheets before sex. And since she tries to always look fantastic, she craves lots of flattery-which includes hearing she’s the best a guy’s ever had in bed, says Seattle-based psychologist Joy Davidson, Ph.D., author of fearless sex.

NUDE
You might think that sleeping sans clothes is a sign of ‘girl gone wild’, but the nudist is more of a sensual lover than a voracious one. “She enjoys the feeling of the air and soft sheets on her skin”, says Davidson. “This tactile temptress loves savouring simple sensations, like having her breasts caressed or her belly kissed”. Her love making motto: “if it feels good, do it”.

So, you must have gained some idea about your sexual preferences or about your girl’s preferences if you know her nightdress.