These contingent occurrences during sex may not be very ordinary, but these can happen to you as well. So the next time you find yourself in these awkward situations, just take a count of the following points…

–Sex with the ex
Imagine earsplitting your ex’s name, or your secret lover’s pet name, just when your spouse is about to climax. Damn! It can’t get poorer than this. “I had an arranged marriage and it was a bungle that I did on my honeymoon. I yelled my ex’s name in gratification and my hubby was very bothered hearing another man’s name. accept me, we didn’t have sex for months, until I won over him that there’s nothing between me and my ex now,” shares Deepti (31), who got connubial last year.

Such an occurrence is likely to make your partner feel alienated, besides injecting a feeling of suspicion in your love life.

**tip: Though fantasies are a crucial part of a gratifying sex life, expressing fantasies in such unforeseen ways can often put end to your relationship.

“A lot of women imagine about their idol or a past lover while having sex as it turns them on. But it’s significant to remember that sex is an emotional experience too, so don’t appear to be expressively weak and let your past lover/fantasy hover in your mind space while becoming close with your present beau. This causes a conflict in your relationship. A combination of yogasan, gym and a job (PGJ) is the top way to keep away from a fertile imagination,” suggests Doctors and clinical psychologist.

–Nature’s call
This blunder is the mother of all sex bummers faced by couples. Often puzzled with a squirting orgasm, it is related to the force applied on the bladder due to sexual stimulation. A problem usually faced by women, this often leaves the male partner feeling semi pleasured. Recalls housewife Lara Petersen, “I often sense like urinating half way through the act and this creates a setback for my man, besides being unhealthy.”

**tip: Never compel yourself to reach a climax if you’re feeling like relieving yourself. “The nerves that are stirred during an erection are quite close to those of the urinal bladder and sometimes an overlapping can upshot in urinating during sex. So make sure you have attended nature’s call before you gear up for proceeding sex. In case there are any other organic evils, certain medications can assist deal with them,” elucidates Dr. Peter Kelvin, a chief sexologist.

Is your partner a workaholic? Do you know how to manage with your workaholic partner? It’s very normal these days when people spend most of their time in their offices. Having a workaholic partner has its good side and bad.
Good side is that he wants to progress in his career, earn more money and wants the family to live a comfortable life.

The flip side of having a workaholic partner is that he has no time for his girlfriend or wife. He forgets special occasions. At times both the partners feel unloved and neglected. There is a lack of understanding between the two and the relationship usually comes to an end. There is no easy way to break a workaholic habit of your partner. It’s just that he needs to know the value of his wife or girlfriend and she still loves him and needs him.

Tips To Manage a Workaholic Partner

1) Make sure he keeps his personal life and professional life at a distance. And do not allow him to blend them both together.

2) Ask him to finish office work at office. And convince him not to bring work home, if isn’t an urgency.

3) If he has to finish some work over the weekend then allot certain time of the day when he can finish his work and later both of you can have an enjoying weekend.

4) Try to take out time for just two of you or family together. You can also Plan out a good lunch or a dinner. Then he will have to take out time for you.

5) Buy tickets to a game or a movie he wanted to go for at weekends. You both will enjoy each other’s company a lot.

6) Become his gym or morning walk companion. In a way you both can spend a quality time also together and keep a check on health too.

7) Encourage him at intervals and support him in his business. From time to times advice him on various issues.

You also can go out for late night long drive. There you both can talk which is very important for any relation to be happy and long.

9) Be patient and understanding with him. With time you will be able to change him. When he will start enjoying your company more he himself will plan to spend time together.

Remember that Life is not always perfect but adjusting and cooperation with those we love the most can really help both of you together and may solidify your relation. So don’t worry just make little efforts and see him change….

How is your relation with your partner going? Is he troubling you? Or you do not feel happy with him anymore? There are some signs which show that you are not in a healthy relation. Read these signs and verify them with your own relation with your partner:

1) Follow your instincts: though he loved you a lot in past and you both made a lovely couple
but now you lately sense that love and attraction is fading away. Discuss it with him; find out what is not going right. It is best to identify and clarify expectations.

2) Verify your interest: Indifference can act poisonous to your relationship. If you find your guy is not interested in you anymore, and he makes excuses to go out with you or to meet you. Then you should verify whether he is interested in you anymore or not.

3) Check your intimacy: are you both enjoying your relation? Are you personal enough to be happy together? If your partner gives explanation to be intimate and ignores your playful behavior, it is clear that he is not interested in this relationship anymore.

4) Does he abuse you? If he does, then I think its troubling you somewhere. Abusive relationship should not be tolerated. Walk out the moment he abuses you physically or verbally. A man, who doesn’t respect you, definitely doesn’t deserve you.

5) Doesn’t he surprise you anymore? He was the one who used to surprise you every now and then. If he has stopped everything now then you should know that something is erroneous. Being busy at work is reasonable but avoiding calls or catching up on weekends for movie or coffee is surely his way of brushing you off.

6) Is your partner controlling your acts? Some people want everything to happen according to them. They always want things their way and if it isn’t then they are morose. He is very dominating. Think twice, if you will be happy with such a person or will be able to enjoy your life.

7) Does he always look for your mistakes? Easy way of getting rid of a partner is by constantly finding faults and analyzing them. Never let such individuals break your self confidence. Move on to a person who appreciates the way you are.

Now as you have seen that these are the signs which tell you that you are in troubled relationship.  Just forget this relation. Though that is not easy but life has to move on.You are worth a better partner. Just stay happy..!!!