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Women tend to go over board when it comes to thinking about men we are seeing at that point in time. We start seeing our dream man in each of them and soon starts the process of knitting our entire future with the guy. In our head, of course! It is only when reality strikes us and we are confronted with something very unlike our thoughts, do we realize that it was all myth. And all our dreams go down the drain.
Whenever we initiate a relationship, we never really think what about what we anticipate from it. Each of us are at some stage in life and have emotional demands that are unique to each one of us. And if we know ourselves well, I fail to understand that why do we just go on drifting with the turn of events that take place in our relationship? Why can’t we for once take charge of our life, think what do we want and take a step towards it.
Don’t we plan everything in our life except our relationships? We feel that relationships just happen, don’t we? Well, if you fall in a relationship by chance, it’s a different story altogether. But if you initiate something out of choice, then I feel, it completely lies in your hands to steer it or leave it depending on your requirement. It’s all about being truthful to your self. Sometimes we aren’t really ready to fall in a serious relationship where the other person just wants to get settled at the earliest possible with you. So if you are in with a mindset that is a bit too different from the guy you are talking to, then I think the answer lies right in front of you.
If you are a bit over-emotional, remember you’ll only hurt yourself if you think too much about the guy in the early stage. A good remedy to this can be spreading your emotional baggage by talking to a number of people at the same time. This is help you spread your attention span to more people than one. These things also help you to deal with the ups and downs of life.
The idea is to maintain a strong balance in your life, even if it is about relationships. I am not saying that you share the same chemistry with five other people. No! All I meant to say is straining towards exclusivity at a very early stage and throwing all your time and attention towards the relationship can be a disaster.
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