Entries RSSDO’S AND DON’TS OF KISS
Lock eyes with the person you’re flirting with for a full five to six seconds, then smile and drop your gaze. Don’t stare a hole through the guy’s forehead for goodness sake, just give him a smoldering come-hither look and look away. Do this at least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute period. Why? Your target needs to know it’s them you’re flirting with, and eye contact is a universal signal of openness.
Smile
Smiling is absolutely the most effective tool in your flirting toolbox. Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a giant plastic used car salesman smile, just your normal “I’m having a great time and I’m happy to be here” face will do the trick. The smile is the international signal of friendliness. Make your move, head on over and start up a conversation. If you don’t, somebody else will.
Be a Vampire’s Best Friend
One of the most winning flirting techniques a woman can use is the exposure of her neck. This can be done with a head tilt to one side, the classic hair flip, or my personal favorite, the over-the-shoulder glance - the asymmetrical position attracts attention, exposes your neck, and gives you the opportunity to lock eyes. The over-the-shoulder move is extra-effective because it’s lovely and it sends a signal to your target that they are worth a second look.
Preen Like A Peacock
We tend to preen or groom ourselves subconsciously when we’re attracted to someone, by smoothing down our hair or clothes, checking our lipstick in a compact, or straightening a tie. Try combining a grooming gesture with a smile and a gaze. Another trick? Toss your hair to one side. This classic move is a double whammy that combines preening and a flash of neck. Need we say.
Lip Service
Both men and women are subconsciously attracted to red, moist lips because they signal youth,love and fertility. How to make the most of it? For women, try wearing a red lipstick (red has been shown to increase a man’s heart rate), which not only gives your lips that youthful color, but also makes your smile more visible and your teeth whiter. A super-shiny lip gloss can also give you an advantage, making your lips look moist and kissable. try licking your lips (subtlety is key here, you don’t want to look like you’re trying out for a porno flick.) or biting your lower lip - both are extremely effective flirting behaviors.
Cross Your Legs
Crossing and uncrossing your legs is another surefire flirting technique, especially if you’re wearing high heels. The act of crossing your legs is quite seductive to men, and it makes them desire to see more. Another key seduction trick is slipping your heel out of your shoe and dangling it on your toes. The arch of the foot sends a romantic message and mimics a woman’s curves, and sends a man’s heart racing.
Let Your Feet Do The Talking
According to body language expert Wood, you want to make yourself a “safe” (read approachable) target. Wood says “to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward. ”
Focus, Focus, Focus
Once you and your flirting target have started talking, use these tips to deepen the attraction. First, smile and maintain eye contact as they are speaking, and focus all of your attention on what they are saying. There is rarely anyone more attractive than someone who finds you utterly fascinating. Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you’re listening to what the other person has to say. Smiling and laughing are crucial here - it’s the quickest, easiest way to put another person at ease and make a connection. Finally, another effective flirting technique is low-level touching such as brushing the shoulder or elbow.
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