Entries RSSDOES HE REALLY MEAN WHAT HE SAYS?
It has been a very popular topic amongst women as to judge what a guy thinks when he says something to a girl to win her heart. Men say its very difficult to figure out what a woman thinks or plans but the real picture is the other way round when it comes to relationships.
The question that clicks the mind Does he really mean what he says or is it just for fun? Leaving aside all the serious relationships and commitments we appreciate, guys, in their young age mostly look for the “fun” part.
It’s very exciting for him to compete with his friends as to who receives maximum attention from the woman lot and is the perfect ladies man! He bets on the girl-count in his life in order to stand out and be the smartest as that’s what smart according to him!
For such reasons he mostly looks for flings more than committed affairs. Men are never satisfied, be it money, success and obviously women! His ideology is “why should I stick to one when I can have many and have fun” At youth he justifies himself by saying that “I am just playing my age” and at work he plays the perfect gentleman.
Its normal for a girl to trust the guy she always had feelings for. So if her dream date approaches her with a twinkle in his eye she naturally gets carried away by every word he says.
The rule is if you really want the guy to genuinely start liking you never hint him about your true feelings because once he feels the girl is falling for him, his game starts and he won’t move back without winning! After all its male ego!
The real picture becomes more clear after breakups happen. The ones mostly effected are the ladies while the men hardly care. It’s in a nature of a man not to care about the woman he knows is under his control. So never let him know what you feel instead play mind games to make him feel the way you want him to. If you want him to come after you just don’t bother to while much of your precious time with him. Don’t giggle at minor jokes but flaunt your million dollar smile with those cherry lips at a hilarious one.
So ladies next time your dream hunk approaches you with his heart winning sweet talks, think again before falling into his traps. He might just be there to have another ball of his life and flirt with you as..
“JUST BECAUSE HE FLIRTS DOESN’T MEAN HE IS INTERESTED”
Other Related Articles
Tags :affairs, Dating, rules of attractionOne Response to “DOES HE REALLY MEAN WHAT HE SAYS?”
-
Says:
Tue, Oct 14, 2008 at 10:43 amUsually, I think there’s some merit in what you ladies write, but this is just about a mile off the target. Part of the problem with life is the amount of deceit we practice.
“Its normal for a girl to trust the guy she always had feelings for”
So, the normalcy of basing what should be an intelligent decision on an emotional impulse alleviates accountability of a bad ending because it’s normal?
“The rule is if you really want the guy to genuinely start liking you never hint him about your true feelings because once he feels the girl is falling for him, his game starts and he won’t move back without winning! After all its male ego!” - I’m not going to argue about male ego, it’s there. Why in god’s name would you tell someone to hide something or be dishonest? It kind of goes against open communication, especially when you’re giving advice to a woman who’s looking for a relationship and not just a fling. You should be open with people. Keep the communication at the forefront so you know if there’s a compatibility issue or not.
If you’re a woman and you’re interested in this guy, have enough self respect to be honest with him, analyze what he does, and make logical decisions. I know that can be hard when you’re really emotional, but it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it or that you have an excuse not to.
Listen, I don’t know where you’re at in life, but I’m a happily married guy with 3 kids and a wife who’s as beautiful as the day is long. She’s smart and witty, she shares my sense of sarcastic humor and we are best friends. A team. We get in fights like anyone (although apparently not as many as everyone else, we’ve had maybe 5 big fights in our 10 years of marriage) and I’m pretty happy. I’ve never cheated on my wife, nor has she on me, I don’t lie to her and when we get in a fight, we still stay respectful of each other. This is because, like any good relationship should be.. we’re friends. And we can trust each other. Why should a 32 year old guy have to explain this to a demographic of 30-40+ yr old women? You should be scolding me with this stuff
You must be logged in to post a comment.