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All relationships have ups and downs. Maybe that’s what brings life and adds spice to it. Its well said -don’t count the number of years you spend together but, just make sure that every year that goes counts and you make every moment wonderful and special. For this it is important to be happy together as after a relationship, happiness becomes inter-linked- if one is happy, ultimately both are! But as always it is important to be in good terms to avoid fights. Fights mostly happen as you at times pick on each other about insignificant things and create tensions where you actually wanted to generate harmony. It creates an emotional turmoil in you and unwanted irritation makes you feel all the more miserable.
You might have heard people say-fights are healthy for a relationship. Its because when you fight you express your feelings and constructively generate the energy and fire. Fights are the result of positive constructive forces in your life. But it does hurt you and your partner a lot. It is so because you resist the energy behind them. In most situations, fights are perfectly fine and healthy. They come from a desire to secure your relationship. Here are some general fighting strategies: -
• LOVE FIGHTS: - They are healthy as mentioned above and makes you express you inner frustration and anger. Speak your heart out and enjoy the challenges. Don’t step back or be afraid.
• Use your psychic power:- psychic power means your ability to channel your desires, wants, ambitions. These are powerfull channels.
• Scream your heart out! Don’t be afraid of what lies behind you temper. Express what you want. Just let it out!
• Be firm and direct. Repeat your message until he gets it! Don’t go in circles and speak the direct message.
• Never underestimate yourself. Don’t blame yourself after every fight is over. Don’t let anything or anyone put you down.
• Express, don’t suppress! Don’t keep all the feelings inside you. If you have anything against your partner just let it out at one go! Keeping things hidden may trigger yet another fight which might not be so healthy like the previous one and may harm instead.
The best way to avoid fights or get over them is to be truthfull. If you are not honest with you partner, then trust in your relationship spells “mockery”. This may lead to bitter arguments and ultimately the death of the beautiful relationship you cared for with all your heart.
When you go to sort things out with you mate, be firm about your points if the maximum fault is his. But if you are the one to blame, then put down your ego and apologize genuinely to your sweetie!
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