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One of the key things needed to make a relationship survive is to respect your partner’s space and understand him. Its said- the farther away you are, the closer you get. So at times distances of length and time are essential to make each other grow fonder of each other. That makes you understand the importance of the other person in your life. Giving space doesn’t mean ignoring each other’s needs and emotions. It means to cut short the “too many questions” you ask him at times thinking you deserve to know everything! It maybe irritating at times if you keep on asking questions like- what, when, where on every topic every now and then. If there is something he needs to share, he will come to you ultimately no matter wherever he goes before that. Console yourself by saying, there is no place like home and to him you are his house of thoughts and secrets!
At times your man maybe with his friends watching a match, partying or sharing some guy- stuff with his friends, he cant be with you. But that doesn’t mean you will start doubting his love for you. It is just that like every other person he also has a life of his own which involves a social network of friends and colleagues. He can be in low mood due to some tiff at work or family and needs to be left alone. Let him be for a while and then start speaking. It is definitely understood that its hard to give space to a person you care for when all you want to do is help. You have to honor their request and let them get themselves together and most of all not take it personal when they say things like- “that’s something I am working on”! if you are a nurturer and always want to help people, then the “giving space” thing becomes really hard as you are not able to help someone you care for. It in a way disturbs your mind that the other person is in trouble and there is nothing you can do! Its not easy, but you have to keep hanging in there!
It is a very hard thing to do but will be a very wise move on your part. The time, during which your lover needs space, you can do things you like. Things that you like to do on your own and even try some new things so that you have many interesting talks to carry out and discuss when he is finally out of his nutshell. So, it is better to let your precious things go for a walk at times. Don’t hold on to hard but don’t even let it go. Hold him gently so that the love remains passionate and not ugly due to over possessiveness.
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