You meet a guy at the country club. He’s good looking, smart and behaves well. Your friend knows him and she assures you that he’s a good guy to be with. After a few sugary calls he asks you out for a date. He comes across as quite a pleasant guy to be with but after some time start to change. He never really states his disinterest to you start sensing an apparent change in his behavior. You’re confused! You don’t know what to do!

I have often had young ladies coming to me complaining about this issue while dating a guy. Amidst all the wellness, something suddenly goes wrong with the guy and you are left guessing at nothing whatsoever!

Well, you know there’s something called the non-verbal mode of communication which every person speaks without being vocal about him self. This primarily includes one’s body language followed by one’s gestures such as eye contact, physical touch, restlessness, so on and so forth. However, in this situation if you confront any of the below listed things, you need to really tighten up strings, my dear! Here they go!

• He starts calling you less or not calling at all
• There’s an apparent change in his voice tone
• He suddenly becomes too busy and does not get any time to
get together
• Even he comes to meet you, he’s pretty late
• He often starts to missing your dates and does not even inform you about it
• Becomes irritable, impatient and his anger outbursts over petty issues take you by surprise!

So if you have experienced any of these or are still confronting, there’s no need for you to move ahead until you talk straight with this guy. These gestures clearly reveal that he is not interested in you any longer and that he is trying his best to show it to you in his own non-verbal way. The best way to come out of this imbroglio is to deal with it in a direct manner without entertaining any excuses from his end!

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Tags :Dating men, dating tips, dating tips for women, non-verbal communication, partner

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