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These contingent occurrences during sex may not be very ordinary, but these can happen to you as well. So the next time you find yourself in these awkward situations, just take a count of the following points…
–Sex with the ex
Imagine earsplitting your ex’s name, or your secret lover’s pet name, just when your spouse is about to climax. Damn! It can’t get poorer than this. “I had an arranged marriage and it was a bungle that I did on my honeymoon. I yelled my ex’s name in gratification and my hubby was very bothered hearing another man’s name. accept me, we didn’t have sex for months, until I won over him that there’s nothing between me and my ex now,” shares Deepti (31), who got connubial last year.
Such an occurrence is likely to make your partner feel alienated, besides injecting a feeling of suspicion in your love life.
**tip: Though fantasies are a crucial part of a gratifying sex life, expressing fantasies in such unforeseen ways can often put end to your relationship.
“A lot of women imagine about their idol or a past lover while having sex as it turns them on. But it’s significant to remember that sex is an emotional experience too, so don’t appear to be expressively weak and let your past lover/fantasy hover in your mind space while becoming close with your present beau. This causes a conflict in your relationship. A combination of yogasan, gym and a job (PGJ) is the top way to keep away from a fertile imagination,” suggests Doctors and clinical psychologist.
–Nature’s call
This blunder is the mother of all sex bummers faced by couples. Often puzzled with a squirting orgasm, it is related to the force applied on the bladder due to sexual stimulation. A problem usually faced by women, this often leaves the male partner feeling semi pleasured. Recalls housewife Lara Petersen, “I often sense like urinating half way through the act and this creates a setback for my man, besides being unhealthy.”
**tip: Never compel yourself to reach a climax if you’re feeling like relieving yourself. “The nerves that are stirred during an erection are quite close to those of the urinal bladder and sometimes an overlapping can upshot in urinating during sex. So make sure you have attended nature’s call before you gear up for proceeding sex. In case there are any other organic evils, certain medications can assist deal with them,” elucidates Dr. Peter Kelvin, a chief sexologist.
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