You’ve been single since a long period of time and now you are desperately in search of a partner who rightly understands you. You have waited so long because you didn’t want to compromise with just anyone entering your life. Suddenly you meet someone good enough. He’s well mannered and is interesting to talk to. You think you have started liking him and one day when he proposes to you, you accept. You feel happy at the prospect but as time passes, you see that he is paying as less attention as possible on you. He seems busier but says he loves you more than ever. Time passes and despite unlike things happening, you stay in denial, waiting that one day the sparks will ignite and your both will be enlightened!

Now tell me how many times have you felt this? I would say that most of us women havee experienced this at least once in our life. For some of us, it is like a vicious circle because we repeatedly confront the same things in every relationship we have. I have decided to address this because such incidents often leave us shattered and cause us injury we don’t deserve at all. So here I am with some signs that’ll tell you whether the man you are seeing is truly inclined towards you or not.

Signs he wants you!

• He keeps calling you regularly and tries to get in touch with you as often as he can.
• He keeps his promise whenever he says so. For e.g. if he says he’ll call you, he does.
• Take care of your personal likes and dislikes such as the types of movies you like, flowers, music, food, etc. and then put in efforts to bring the best of it to you.
• He expresses his emotions to know with little gestures to let you know how much he adores you.
• If chasing you gets you to pay attention to him, he doesn’t even mind doing that.

Signs telling you he is not really interested in you!

• He takes his own sweet time to get back to you and seems to have a bit too casual an attitude towards you. Even if he does talk to you, he does not seem very excited and keeps shut most of time.
• Never really calls you whenever he says so.
• Never does he spend quality time with you nor does he lets you know how he feels about you. Most of times he leaves you wondering about what does he exactly think about you.
• He is never emotionally expressive.
• He is not interested about things that you like; nor does he set up any special dates to make you feel loved or warm.

So now that you know what these signs mean and find yourself still making excuses, trying to overlook his attitude, you’re in for some real massive emotional trouble in near future. Even if you like him a lot and feel that he is even worth making excuses for, are you really happy?? If no, then you already know what to do!

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Tags :Dating, Dating men, dating tips, denial, Love, Loving, Relationship, relationship advice

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