Its very common practice prevailing in every family, every relationship you accept it or not. On asking a common lady she dimples back and says “no, fighting over money –such an ugly thing isn’t it? ‘ your money, my money’ is something that the neighbors do. It happens to others. Not to us. Not really.”

Of course, most things being equal-the same level of education, income, ‘wavelength’-the fight over money, or how to spend it, is quite rough tackle these days. How can you tell the other off or keep a tight hold on the purse strings when each of you carries a wallet and the money that isn’t in it? Here is how you can set some ground rules and break them when need be without sounding the other out on responsibility not caring enough. There is no need to make it sound as if you all are ending up at cleaners.

Hold the key

1. Don’t be hands off. This is taking the fight over money to an opposite extreme. Be involved and keep track of your own accounts. Both spouses need to be responsible for the household budget-if you actually have such a thing.

2. No blame game- do not blame each other for any past financial problem.

3. Do not ring up your parents or friends and ask them to take sides in this.

4. Discuss all major purchases with each other before going through with it and take into consideration how your partner feels.

Power games

Do not play power games in a relationship. The boundary and hierarchical differences between men and women lead to clashes and money decision making.

Talking sense

1. Share your old hurts, resentments and fears about money. Mention your concern and fears about your partners spending.

2. There is no need to divulge your pin or password. While you may trust your partner absolutely, there are certain things that you must keep absolutely confidential and this is one of them. We can’t like for granted that a relationship will last forever.

3. When such an unfortunate split happens, it has been noted that some partners do misuse the trust placed in them.

Over 60% of arguments that couples have are related to money matters .Divulging accounts starts, Pins and passwords can sometimes result in unnecessary fiction between couples. So it is best to sort out financial matters at the beginning of a serious relationship and if you are earning and spending your own money, there is no real need to divulge the amount that you spend apart from your purchase the amount you decide to invest or save.

From romantic and sensual to sexy and sexually liberating, this list of places to have sex has something that will excite you and your partner.

Okay, here is the top 10 craziest places to have sex

10. A Shore Thing
“Everyone’s done it on the beach. We took it a few steps higher, to the lifeguard chair. It was a lookout over the entire beach, so we could tell if anyone was coming.”

9. Book Worm
“On the 7th floor in the university library during finals week. Great stress reliever!”

8. Porch View
“On my patio that faced the freeway and at the time we lived in an apartment complex. It was very exciting!”

7. Is that on the Menu?
“On the sink counter in a very fancy hotel restaurant’s men’s room. Still makes me hot to think about it.”

6. Field of Dreams
always wanted to have sex in an open field? So drive out to the middle of nowhere, found a spot, got a blanket and proceeded to have some great sex! A private airplane kept flying over and over again.

5. Dive In
“Once on a diving board at an apartment complex swimming pool at 3 a.m. The pool lit up below the two, and the air  filled with the scent of flowering trees…quite intoxicating!”

4. In a Nightclub
For those times when you’ve met a horny new lover and all that bumping and grinding has left you both a hot mess, the average nightclub has a number of options for near-public sex.

3. A sports arena:
This is even better if you can do it at your favorite teams stadium but might be a nice surprise if you are on vacation and happen to catch the local team play some ball.

2. In a museum:
This one might prove to be the most tricky.  With all the priceless works of art around there is usually heightened security and video cameras watching every inch of the place.  If you are risky enough to try this one just make sure you are aware that a video of your actions could wind up on the internet at some point.

1. In the Woods
Show your appreciation for the beautiful countryside around you and get your kicks al fresco. Just watch out for stinging nettles, Army reservists and rambling church groups, all instant passion killers.

If you and your partner are looking for something exciting check out this collection of ideas for places to have sex.