If you are among the couples who have to live apart cause of various reason like official work or something else and it had been a long time being together. The best way to be remove the lonely less is to plan out a vacation or outing for 2 to 3 days to a destination where you both will be in least interaction with the other world and just be able to smell your partner. Well this really sounds great although just being together itself of great feeling. How ever if you get such an opportunity it is really lovely but you girls can do something more, a very small- small things to make those moments a memorable, relaxing and full of love.

Here I give you some small tips to help you out, Need not to worry they are absolutely easy on your wallet.

If you are driving down to the destination of your choice, rest one hand carelessly on is thighs and while you quietly look out of the window, it is enough to let him know that you are relaxed and yet focused on him, it will immediately connect both of you, this can be even done while you are in a flight or in a train, in fact you must do it.

Keep a decadent chocolate, a bottle of great wine, glasses and some strawberries, pack them in a picnic basket and when you see nice place while on the way where there is no general stop so that you could maintain your privacy, ask him to park the car and feed each other.

Before leaving for your destination make sure you by a gift for your man, could be any thing which is attached to some of your memory like something he admired while you both were together at some shopping place. If not so then look up for something like a remote control car’s model which he love the most because almost all men are crazy for cars. It is better to give something which he could carry along himself while he is away from you and best time to give it is the in the  first morning of your vacation.

Once you get settled in your room you can play some sexy games like cards or spin the bottle or truth and dare you can ask him to do something tough like push ups or trying a hand stand and you can take something of starting from extras like earrings and shoes and so on finally you will end in a better way. In the evening you ask him to go for a walk and start of some stories and all can even start some scary stories. If you no how to massage it is nice otherwise learn it bit and give mini to your man some time, for this you must carry some aromatherapy oil in your bag pack.

There can be many other small things which can add lots of spice to your trip. Be a smart girl to have romantic moments with your love instead of just wondering around the place with just hand in hand.

Three a.m. phone calls, lonely TV dinners, an empty bed, your new self description as sms slave- living away from your man is tough but not impossible You don’t need to tell you how hard it is to meet your match, Some one to laugh hard and see yourself with for more than two months in a row. Now what are your chances that you will find the perfect person in your city much less in your area code? If dream dude is no further than a 20minute drive away you are lucky. But if not, then you are among the millions trying to make LDR’s (long distance relationship) work. Instead of looking at it as a problem, think of this as a chance to find out more about your romantic tryst and yourself.

Lets see how to tackle your own self if you are one of the victims of the below problems-

“I m waiting but the loneliness hurts”
Discover yourself. When your life revolves around a person, it’s natural to get upset when he is gone .an LDR is the perfect guilt free excuse. Instead of sitting at home lonely and depressed, try to find a solution. Try to think of this period not as the equivalents of dropping off the planet but like you are embarking on an adventure. Analyze whether he’s the man for keeps.

“He never calls, writes, mails….”
Convert your communophobic. Unfortunately, he may be one among the many who can’t verbalize their love. May be he’s phonophobic. There could be real reasons behind those awkward pauses on phones, the empty inbox, and the sms icon you wished would pop up on your cell. Send him regular emails, candid photos etc.

Nothing beats the one on one chemistry of a few hours of touch time to gauge how you really feel about other, plus it serves as a beautiful memory.

“He asks no questions about my life”
Show him your life. Take advantage of technology and encourage him to do the same. Send him your pictures, of friends, family, work and everything that makes you ‘you’. Add sms, chat sessions, and your attention arsenal is complete.

Learn to relax. Don’t start assuming the worst just because he doesn’t puck up his phone on the first ring. If you call and he isn’t there, don’t automatically assume he’s out on a hot date. Remember if you can’t trust him enough to let live his life without you by his side every second then perhaps you aren’t prepared to handle an LDR after all.LDR’s are always about the future .you are willing to stay faithful and love this guy in the hope that one day, you can be together.

Quick tip-Stash some extra cash in a LDR account every month-that way you won’t feel guilty when you splurge on a surprise visit!

Dumping is truly an art form. The more you date, reject and finally dump, the more the lines drip from your mouth like honey. Never stay in a relationship past its sell by date. while the romantic edge haze of being in love or the initial reservations of an arranged marriage may behind you to certain aspects of your future spouse’s personality, it is important to look for early warming signs that tell you whether your partner is actually right for you. Let’s take an example as the girl says “no goodbye” to the guy when asked if he could call inspite of the fact that the girl spent the whole day with him. At this the guy’s heart explodes into a billion fragments.

Ain’t these gals becoming wiser? Well “it’s better to lie than to tell the truth” that is what girls are going for. The very high of falling love or getting married often keeps us from focusing on the not so good side of our partner. While none of us is perfect it is important to observe our partner and check for signs that display a personality that may be dysfunctional, Abusive or controlling. These signs are early indicators of whether your relationship will last or not.

Technology has made life easier. If you are a chicken to break up with someone face to face then text messages are a painless option. All you need to do is give a concise reason for your decision and mention that when he calls you, you will explain in detail. The beauty in this is that very often they don’t call back!

There are 3 biggest reasons for a break up:
• Lack of communication
• Black mailing
• Involvement of third person

While one doesn’t advocate rigidity or a deliberate seeking out of flaws. It is important to look for these warning signs. What do you do when the truth is hurtful or silly? Simply blame yourself make an excuse about needing to do soul searching to find your true purpose of life. You could use anything as long as it spares you from listening to the faint shattering of his heartstrings. It hurts less when he knows the fault is with you and not him.

Of course, should he have cheated on you or hit you or indulged in any other despicable act, sparing his feelings goes out the window. No matter how you choose to dump his degenerate self-just do it!