You’ve been single since a long period of time and now you are desperately in search of a partner who rightly understands you. You have waited so long because you didn’t want to compromise with just anyone entering your life. Suddenly you meet someone good enough. He’s well mannered and is interesting to talk to. You think you have started liking him and one day when he proposes to you, you accept. You feel happy at the prospect but as time passes, you see that he is paying as less attention as possible on you. He seems busier but says he loves you more than ever. Time passes and despite unlike things happening, you stay in denial, waiting that one day the sparks will ignite and your both will be enlightened!

Now tell me how many times have you felt this? I would say that most of us women havee experienced this at least once in our life. For some of us, it is like a vicious circle because we repeatedly confront the same things in every relationship we have. I have decided to address this because such incidents often leave us shattered and cause us injury we don’t deserve at all. So here I am with some signs that’ll tell you whether the man you are seeing is truly inclined towards you or not.

Signs he wants you!

• He keeps calling you regularly and tries to get in touch with you as often as he can.
• He keeps his promise whenever he says so. For e.g. if he says he’ll call you, he does.
• Take care of your personal likes and dislikes such as the types of movies you like, flowers, music, food, etc. and then put in efforts to bring the best of it to you.
• He expresses his emotions to know with little gestures to let you know how much he adores you.
• If chasing you gets you to pay attention to him, he doesn’t even mind doing that.

Signs telling you he is not really interested in you!

• He takes his own sweet time to get back to you and seems to have a bit too casual an attitude towards you. Even if he does talk to you, he does not seem very excited and keeps shut most of time.
• Never really calls you whenever he says so.
• Never does he spend quality time with you nor does he lets you know how he feels about you. Most of times he leaves you wondering about what does he exactly think about you.
• He is never emotionally expressive.
• He is not interested about things that you like; nor does he set up any special dates to make you feel loved or warm.

So now that you know what these signs mean and find yourself still making excuses, trying to overlook his attitude, you’re in for some real massive emotional trouble in near future. Even if you like him a lot and feel that he is even worth making excuses for, are you really happy?? If no, then you already know what to do!

How would you know if a guy you are flirting with lately wants to get seriously involved with you until he proposes to you? I mean there are times when guys spend a great amount of time with a girl but never really divulge what’s on their mind in clear terms. Well, this often leaves women guessing a hundred things, not really aware of the right thing going on in the guy’s mind. So here are some signs that’ll help you know if he’s really interested in you.

Men have their own way of showing their inclination but how they do it depends from person to person. Here we go!

The most apparent sign is when there are many attractive women sharing the space with you but he tends to ignore all of them and focus only on you. This comes in as a huge sign telling how much he likes you because even the presence of other attractive women around you does not affect him in anyway.

Another apparent thing is whenever he cracks a joke or tells something hilarious, he’ll look at you before anyone else to see how much you liked it. In other words, if he likes you, he will want to know your reaction first and then see what the entire group sitting has to say about it. So if you see him making the first eye contact with you soon after he says something, you must understand that he has a crush on you. No man will otherwise give just one person (read woman) more attention when in a group.

The most common thing that comes across in this regard is when his close friends try to ask you indirectly whether you are dating anyone or not. Yes, if you see that his pals are in some way or the other trying to know more about your love life, they are on to something fishy. This means that they’ll feed the guy with whatever information you give them so that he can stay informed.

These are some regular signs that never go wrong in divulging that the guy you are talking to now a days is really interested in moving ahead with you. However, if you like the guy too, you know what to do but if you take him only as a friend, then you should immediately draw distance from him so that he does not get any wrong ideas from you.

You have been single for a long period of time and are really open to dating now. But do you think it is easy to find an interesting partner or someone you can give yourself to after the long wait you have had to let only the best man be in your life now?  Well, let’s find out what happens when we meet someone worth talking after a long gap.

Being single for a long period of time has its own hazards.  Amidst the daily pressures we levy on ourselves to find someone to fill our partner’s space as soon as possible, what do we do if do come across someone we might call ‘interesting’? Well, we hold on to him thinking that we finally have someone in our life and with the hope that the connection between you two will eventually grow stronger and more special with time.

My dear friend, the question you need to ask yourself here is, ‘How special is the connection between you and this ‘interesting’ person, right now?’ I am saying this because as women, the moment we meet someone who impresses us a bit after a long period of time, we tend to get immediately infatuated with him and unintentionally create illusions which eventually lead us to disappointment and bruised emotions, we do not deserve.

This is one of the most common phenomenons experienced by women and hence I thought it would be most appropriate to throw some light on the subject. This starts when you meet someone you get attracted to romantically and want to get to the next level but nothing seems to really happen. If you have felt the same then don’t think you are one of a kind, my friend. I would rather welcome you to a common situation many of us women find ourselves in.

When such a thing happens, you need to really think if this new man is truly worth your time and patience or you are simply in denial about how special is the connection between the two of you really is. You need to be observant and pay attention whether he really stirs your inner being or you are making excuses for him when he does not put in the effort you would like him to.

This is so because we women tend to make excuses when the man we like does not invest enough time and energy to keep the relation alive. What we do is we convince ourselves to think that he is worth our time and come up with reasons to hide his lazy and inconsiderate behavior. Where as deep inside we already know whether he is crazy about us in the right earnest or not.

You know when we get into something like this, a great part of our mental energies get drained and the more we try to ignore his carelessness, the emptier we feel. Hence the moment you come across such a thing, instead of going ahead with him, it is best to call it quits and end the ugly game of hiding the truth from your own self. If taking a decision confuses you or makes you feel guilty, think it is your weaker self that is making you think that way. You may feel a bit upset initially but some days down the line when you’ll see that you are no longer giving yourself any false expressions to guard a man who actually never made you feel happy, you’ll be proud of yourself!