There’s a language that doesn’t need words. A language women have been using to their advantage since centuries and still continue to do so. In the present dating context, this issue needs a special mention because today’s times are about survival of the fittest. If you want to make a perfect impression on your guy on the first date, there’s no way you can do it without attracting him with your body language.

Let’s have a look at some tips regarding it!

Fluency is attaining the right body language not only has the advantage of attracting the right men but also cutting off wrong ones from your aura.

The Eye Contact!

Good eye contact is one of the most imperative measures to make an impression on the person. This gives a clear indication of the fact that you are a confident lady and completely in control of yourself. However, do not start staring on his face the moment you two are seated. The best way is to start off with some sidelong glances. Then gradually as the conversation flows, try establishing direct eye contact. If he turns to meet your gaze (which he will), immediately lower down your eyes and smile to yourself. This will indicate that you were watching him and are a bit embarrassed that he caught you doing that. This is a sure sign of interest and will give him enough cue to ignite his craving to know more about what’s going on inside you. Alright next, be bold and try holding his stare, flashing a subtle, open-lipped smile to tell him you like him in a way.

On the contrary, if there is a man eyeing you but you just not seem interested, the best way to show him this is to look away from him without looking back at him again. If you are completely put off with his demeanor when in conversation, start looking at the ceiling and all around the room. This will show your definite lack of interest in him. Where doing this might seem too rude but there are instances when you have to do it to ensure the guy does have a fair idea about what you think about him.

Thus you see, there’s so much you can convey to your man even without conveying a single thing verbally. God has gifted us with some great ways to express ourselves and women in particular should employ this to their best advantage.

You’ll get to read more of our tips on dating in our forth coming articles!

You know each one us carry an air about ourselves. It determines how we act, react, talk or walk and based on that we can easily judge what’s on the person’s mind, even though he stays mum. This is known as the non-verbal language which we all invariably impart in ways unique to our own selves. So let’s talk about the most common of them all confronted by women most often and need to be aware about!

Physical Contact!

This is easiest way to gauge what’s exactly on your guys mind when he meets you for the first time. I am not talking about men who are shy in here. They may never touch you even if they want to and you’ll know that but you ought to know the signals that men give in this regard while on a date!

If everything’s fallen in place (according to you) but your date avoids taking your hand or putting his arm around you, then this for sure is a sign of the fact that he may be uncomfortable or unsure about you. If further on, he avoids making an eye contact with you, his body posture is closed, is restless and is paying less attention to you, you should not waste your time to learn that something is wrong already. If this thing occurs more than once, then consider its time for you to set off your silent alarm.

So if you have your guy doing any of these, it is probably in the best of your interest that you do not continue with him any longer. This is an absolute obnoxious behavior and every guy should be man enough to accept what he feels, even if that costs him to be bitter on the face. Keeping your lady in dark is the worst thing a man can do to dishonor her!

I hope you got your question answered pretty well!

You meet a guy at the country club. He’s good looking, smart and behaves well. Your friend knows him and she assures you that he’s a good guy to be with. After a few sugary calls he asks you out for a date. He comes across as quite a pleasant guy to be with but after some time start to change. He never really states his disinterest to you start sensing an apparent change in his behavior. You’re confused! You don’t know what to do!

I have often had young ladies coming to me complaining about this issue while dating a guy. Amidst all the wellness, something suddenly goes wrong with the guy and you are left guessing at nothing whatsoever!

Well, you know there’s something called the non-verbal mode of communication which every person speaks without being vocal about him self. This primarily includes one’s body language followed by one’s gestures such as eye contact, physical touch, restlessness, so on and so forth. However, in this situation if you confront any of the below listed things, you need to really tighten up strings, my dear! Here they go!

• He starts calling you less or not calling at all
• There’s an apparent change in his voice tone
• He suddenly becomes too busy and does not get any time to
get together
• Even he comes to meet you, he’s pretty late
• He often starts to missing your dates and does not even inform you about it
• Becomes irritable, impatient and his anger outbursts over petty issues take you by surprise!

So if you have experienced any of these or are still confronting, there’s no need for you to move ahead until you talk straight with this guy. These gestures clearly reveal that he is not interested in you any longer and that he is trying his best to show it to you in his own non-verbal way. The best way to come out of this imbroglio is to deal with it in a direct manner without entertaining any excuses from his end!