Everyday we have millions of people signing up to date on the net. Some prefer doing it online for a considerable period of time, some sign in just to pick phone numbers and to start off from there! Where are certainly all types of options available for you, it is imperative for you to decide what exactly do you want from a relationship?

Dating sites have a vast gamut of options available for both men as well as women but women need to be extra careful before starting off in this direction. I am saying so because women are sensitive creatures and so you must ensure that you don’t get involved in anything that ends up eroding you as an individual. Well, until you are mentally prepared for it.

So the first thing like a said is knowing what you actually want from the relationship you are actually seeking. Do you simply want to flirt with your partner? Are you in for a physical relationship without any emotional strings attached? If you’ve had an experience, how you feel about it after you’ve had it? Did you mix your feelings in the process of simply seeking a flirty partner? Do you really relate to the concept you are going in for?

You know these are some questions you need to answer before heading for a relationship. This is because is you are not sure of what you want, how can you complain about after you’ve entangled yourself in something you never expected? So it is mandatory for you to know if you want to just hook up with a guy or are really in for a long lasting relationship!

Think well, you must have a strong attitude and aptitude towards anything you are heading for to ensure that you don’t end up regretting in anyway!

Be confident and act smart!

Yes, this is what I want to tell to all my friends who’ve been dreaming big but have stepped because of their inhibitions – live life to the fullest!

Okay let me start from this quote Mel Gibson (William Wallace in the movie Braveheart) gave to his countrymen; “..and dying in your beds many years from now, would you be willing to trade all the days, from this day to that, for one chance, just once chance, to come back here and tell our enemies that they may take our lives, but they’ll never take our freedom.”

Does this quote hit you in any way? Does this tell you anything about yourself or the way we have been living passive lives so far?

You know this is my favorite scene in the movie because it’s about living your life to the fullest by doing what you heart is asking you to and not fearing consequences. It’s about living a life without regret! So what’s your choice on this?

I have seen numerous women just fading away into depression for not being able to divulge their true feelings to the men they love because of their inhibitions. Because they feel that they can’t match the confidence of impressing him in the first glance. But does that mean that you do not try at all? Does that mean that you spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you could have at least approached him once and seen what he had to say? If not, then why do we succumb to mediocrity, my dear? Why do we give up before even trying?

My idea here is to ask you drop all your inhibitions and just goes for it, without thinking what would his response be. So what if he is real hot or a tad too smart for his generation? Why would you think yourself to be any less? I am not asking you to develop some false ego and behave as if you are the best; no! I am only asking you to follow your heart without holding yourself back. To think of the worst, he may turn you down or may laugh at you but that at least won’t leave you regretting that you didn’t try at all.

You know regret is a horrible thing so please don’t force that burden upon yourself. Get up and go for it – believe you me you’ll get to know the real meaning of living life tp the fullest!

So I am finally answering the question I have been asked at least a hundred times now – how to kiss like a pro!

Alright let me start with where women actually goof up.

Now suppose you’ve just had an amazing date with the hottest man you’ve ever laid your eyes on. And yes, this is your first date with him. You’ve been ardently trying to have this guy go out for a date with you and tonight was the night. You tried to be your best today - kept your cool, acted confident, and your humor made him laugh too. So you’re now feeling a bit confident of the fact that you were able to impress him. At least so far! And while watching the movie rest your head against his shoulder, so you know he’s digging you. You feel on top of the world and assume that you are already three parts ahead in the game.

It’s now time to offer him a cup of coffe at your home and you walk him up to the front porch. You gently hold his hand and see a soft smile on his face. Your heart rejoices and just as he tells that he’s had a lovely evening, you know its time!

You are a woman of actions so you lean in for a kiss just at the right time while he meets you halfway. And what follows next? What follows next is before he can even breathe, you ram your tongue down his throat in order to show him how confidently aggressive you actually are. But oops, you forgot about that piece of chicken wing stuck between your teeth. And despite him indicating you by coughing that you are gagging him off his breath, you go on and on and on. To make situation worse, you reach behind and grab his rear as you further lock your lips more firmly with his.

From the next day on, you see that he stops returning your calls and you never get to see him ever again! You think that he’s found someone else perhaps but the fact of the matter is he has judged you with that one kiss of yours and now he doesn’t even want to hear your name.

Now need I say what is that you are supposed to do to impress him? Yes, you’ve guessed it right. Please be as soft and slow as you can without rushing in! Men love women who are gentle with them. It shows that they respect women and are in no hurry to show their machismo with something as romantic as a kiss.

So now that you know this, keep this thing in mind if you really intend to win the men with your prowess!