If you have just gotten out of a relationship and think that you are completely out of your ex, it is time to indulge into a reality check.

A relationship just don’t get over with the word “over“, he may be gone from your life but his dreams, actions, and conversations may still exist for you.

Let us read about some possible signs to suggest that he is still game for you.

1. If you feel the urge to have a word or two with him and often wait in desperation to receive a call from him, things are not over as yet and he is surely on your mind.
2. If you have been discussing ways with your friends on how to move on or get back with him, all is still not lost.
3. If you recently heard that he is dating some one or saw him with a girl and feel jealous, you are still there with him in thoughts.
4. If you have been checking his Facebook pages to know the latest in his life and what kind of messages he is sending to his friends, you may still have that “affection” for him. Things are surely bad if you delete your account to avoid him and then recreate it to get one more glimpse of him and his activities.
5. If you think that you are nurturing “improved” relationship with his or common friends, it may be because you want to know things about him.
6. If you visit a mall and think that a perfume smell coming your way belongs to him, you still have not lost him with the mind and heart.
7. If you two had a movie outing and you cry or miss the feelings shared while enjoying the movie, there are high chances that is because you still miss and want him.

If your answer to any of the questions is a yes, you still have not lost him and if you think that the relationship is worth a second chance, it is high time that you suggest your feelings before him so that he can know how you feel.

When you meet a guy for the first time what interests you in him the most? It’s perhaps his physical appearance that does the initial magic in your heart towards him. Like it’s said, “the first impression is the last impression”, the initial impression about a person is made by looks and personality. But with time there are several things that bring a person closer to you. Apart from physical appearance, intellectual and emotional attraction is very important for any relationship to work in the long run.

Who doesn’t like a charming face but talking of intellectual and emotional attractions, are we more attracted towards people whom we are similar to, or those from whom we are different? Its human nature to crave for things that one doesn’t have and not care about things one knows they posses. So it’s a more lavish thought to have a partner who is perfect i.e. who is a master of the things you lack in life and similarly it’s a pleasure to have qualities you feel your partner lacks!

A woman would always want her perfect man to be everything she wants and everything she needs and be everything from inside she wished she could be. Like it’s said about couples totally opposite in nature “even though they are different, they compliment each other in many ways”. In other words it’s not the difference in qualities but the complimentary nature that enhances the attraction. Such attractions modify into love pretty soon!

On the contrary, there are some people who prefer partners similar to them. Eventhough the general rule of the society is attraction of the similar; it at times becomes crucial from career point of view. Having a partner who is interested in the same field as you are and competing with him everyday when you actually look for support is not such a good feeling. Having someone who has a different lifestyle at times opens doors for a wider social circle and a life full of variety. But in such cases the point to be kept in mind is that both people should have understanding amongst each other. If people have different interests, then it becomes very important for them to respect each other’s opinion.

For opposites to click in a positive way they should have a comfortable level of acceptance and both should have one thing in common i.e. mentality. The rest of the qualities may be different.

So ladies, the next time you look for your satisfactory potential partner, try moving your eyes towards the opposite lot as well because you never know the man who is different from you may complete your precious life!

You may be one of those who find it difficult to confront with the opposite sex when it comes to love and romance. If you are too shy it might affect your relationship negatively.

Here a few tips that will help you overcome shyness:

Try and find out the reason of your shyness, if you know the reason you can focus on it well and get rid of your shyness in due course of time.

It is important that you have a positive approach towards life and about yourself. If you are shy you might have a low self confidence and it will be difficult for you to reach out to the feelings of your guy.

If you really want to get rid of shyness always have the urge of eliminating it at the back of your mind.

Look in the eye while speaking with men if you want to attract them towards yourself.

Move out of your home and go to places where you will meet lot of men and you will know how to deal with them and talk to them.

Try to be happy and keep laughing. Read joke books and online e jokes for a change or engage yourself in doing things you enjoy they may refresh your mind and ease the tension and make you comfortable when you amidst guys.

If you get shy on dates and can’t think of anything to talk about try asking your date lots of questions about him.

If you are not able to get rid of shyness by your known efforts you can join a personality development class.

Walk upright this will boost your self confidence and help you get rid of shyness.

Breathing is a good exercise whenever you feel your heart racing take a deep breathe. If you really start to feel uncomfortable excuse yourself and go to the restroom.

Listen to what he is talking about; if you don’t understand ask him what he likes about the thing he is talking about.

The above mentioned tips will surely help you work on your personality and get along well in your relationship.