So how many of you have been surfing on net and sitting for long hours on dating sites hoping to find someone you’ll be making  the greatest romantic connection with? Well, most of the times, isn’t it? In spite of spending so much time on it, do you feel that you are nowhere and that you are doomed in this whole online dating business? If yes, then its time to stop feeling sorry about yourself!

If you think that you are only being unlucky in this genre, you are wrong. Luck has no role to play in it. If you are doing just what other women also do, you are probably dating in a blindfolded manner, because you don’t even know what you are doing. If so far you have been unsuccessful and dissatisfied with your dating patterns, it is time for you to take a few steps back and see where exactly are things not working for you.

Since we women are sensitive people and being lonely vulnerable as well, we often getting carried away in the process of finding the right guy for us. After some time we forget the fact as to why did we decide to date people online in the place? What are the qualities you want to see in that person and which qualities are you ready to compromise with? What are YOUR needs and desires behind getting into all this? Do these parameters stay in your mind when you talk to someone? If I answer on your behalf, I don’t think many of us really remember these things while chatting with someone. If we don’t get the right person to talk to for a long time, we probably try our chance with everyone we meet online.

So how do you avoid this?

Simple – by being in constant touch with what do you really want from your lover. When you start talking to someone, you won’t take much time in realizing if the person fits in your parameters, if you keep your mind alert. And the moment this thing strikes you, it is best to drop the guy there and then if we you feel he is even a little less than what you want. There is no need to compromise in any way. So your decision making in this regard has to be quick or else you’ll drain a lot of energy unnecessarily from yourself in dating someone just for the heck of it.

You might think that you’ll be hurting his emotions if you stop talking to him in this manner but remember that there is nothing personal between you and him still so you can make an excuse and just strike it off – in a polite manner of course!

This way you will save yourself a lot of mental energy and will always be in a judicious position to determine if someone is right for you or not!

So take these things into regard the next time you go in for online dating and you’ll never disappoint yourself!

You’ve been single since a long period of time and now you are desperately in search of a partner who rightly understands you. You have waited so long because you didn’t want to compromise with just anyone entering your life. Suddenly you meet someone good enough. He’s well mannered and is interesting to talk to. You think you have started liking him and one day when he proposes to you, you accept. You feel happy at the prospect but as time passes, you see that he is paying as less attention as possible on you. He seems busier but says he loves you more than ever. Time passes and despite unlike things happening, you stay in denial, waiting that one day the sparks will ignite and your both will be enlightened!

Now tell me how many times have you felt this? I would say that most of us women havee experienced this at least once in our life. For some of us, it is like a vicious circle because we repeatedly confront the same things in every relationship we have. I have decided to address this because such incidents often leave us shattered and cause us injury we don’t deserve at all. So here I am with some signs that’ll tell you whether the man you are seeing is truly inclined towards you or not.

Signs he wants you!

• He keeps calling you regularly and tries to get in touch with you as often as he can.
• He keeps his promise whenever he says so. For e.g. if he says he’ll call you, he does.
• Take care of your personal likes and dislikes such as the types of movies you like, flowers, music, food, etc. and then put in efforts to bring the best of it to you.
• He expresses his emotions to know with little gestures to let you know how much he adores you.
• If chasing you gets you to pay attention to him, he doesn’t even mind doing that.

Signs telling you he is not really interested in you!

• He takes his own sweet time to get back to you and seems to have a bit too casual an attitude towards you. Even if he does talk to you, he does not seem very excited and keeps shut most of time.
• Never really calls you whenever he says so.
• Never does he spend quality time with you nor does he lets you know how he feels about you. Most of times he leaves you wondering about what does he exactly think about you.
• He is never emotionally expressive.
• He is not interested about things that you like; nor does he set up any special dates to make you feel loved or warm.

So now that you know what these signs mean and find yourself still making excuses, trying to overlook his attitude, you’re in for some real massive emotional trouble in near future. Even if you like him a lot and feel that he is even worth making excuses for, are you really happy?? If no, then you already know what to do!

How would you know if a guy you are flirting with lately wants to get seriously involved with you until he proposes to you? I mean there are times when guys spend a great amount of time with a girl but never really divulge what’s on their mind in clear terms. Well, this often leaves women guessing a hundred things, not really aware of the right thing going on in the guy’s mind. So here are some signs that’ll help you know if he’s really interested in you.

Men have their own way of showing their inclination but how they do it depends from person to person. Here we go!

The most apparent sign is when there are many attractive women sharing the space with you but he tends to ignore all of them and focus only on you. This comes in as a huge sign telling how much he likes you because even the presence of other attractive women around you does not affect him in anyway.

Another apparent thing is whenever he cracks a joke or tells something hilarious, he’ll look at you before anyone else to see how much you liked it. In other words, if he likes you, he will want to know your reaction first and then see what the entire group sitting has to say about it. So if you see him making the first eye contact with you soon after he says something, you must understand that he has a crush on you. No man will otherwise give just one person (read woman) more attention when in a group.

The most common thing that comes across in this regard is when his close friends try to ask you indirectly whether you are dating anyone or not. Yes, if you see that his pals are in some way or the other trying to know more about your love life, they are on to something fishy. This means that they’ll feed the guy with whatever information you give them so that he can stay informed.

These are some regular signs that never go wrong in divulging that the guy you are talking to now a days is really interested in moving ahead with you. However, if you like the guy too, you know what to do but if you take him only as a friend, then you should immediately draw distance from him so that he does not get any wrong ideas from you.