How is your relation with your partner going? Is he troubling you? Or you do not feel happy with him anymore? There are some signs which show that you are not in a healthy relation. Read these signs and verify them with your own relation with your partner:

1) Follow your instincts: though he loved you a lot in past and you both made a lovely couple
but now you lately sense that love and attraction is fading away. Discuss it with him; find out what is not going right. It is best to identify and clarify expectations.

2) Verify your interest: Indifference can act poisonous to your relationship. If you find your guy is not interested in you anymore, and he makes excuses to go out with you or to meet you. Then you should verify whether he is interested in you anymore or not.
3) Check your intimacy:  are you both enjoying your relation? Are you personal enough to be happy together? If your partner gives explanation to be intimate and ignores your playful behavior, it is clear that he is not interested in this relationship anymore.
4) Does he abuse you? If he does, then I think its troubling you somewhere. Abusive relationship should not be tolerated. Walk out the moment he abuses you physically or verbally. A man, who doesn’t respect you, definitely doesn’t deserve you.
5) Doesn’t he surprise you anymore? He was the one who used to surprise you every now and then. If he has stopped everything now then you should know that something is erroneous. Being busy at work is reasonable but avoiding calls or catching up on weekends for movie or coffee is surely his way of brushing you off.
6) Is your partner controlling your acts? Some people want everything to happen according to them. They always want things their way and if it isn’t then they are morose. He is very dominating. Think twice, if you will be happy with such a person or will be able to enjoy your life.
7) Does he always look for your mistakes? Easy way of getting rid of a partner is by constantly finding faults and analyzing them. Never let such individuals break your self confidence. Move on to a person who appreciates the way you are.

Now as you have seen that these are the signs which tell you that you are in troubled relationship
. Just forget this relation. Though that is not easy but life has to move on.
You are worth a better partner. Just stay happy..!!!

When in a relationship either married or dating it’s usually a proven fact that the stress levels of work pressure or the relationship are quite less when the level of physical activity is very strong.
It’s always important to maintain the physical intimacy as the relationship is smooth and also the comfort of each other is always felt.

Another important fact is that during arguments and major fights, differences seem to be minimal due to the bonding being strong.

To carry on a further generation with the right values to probes you to have a strong connection with your partner.

Ways to go over bonding with your partner takes patience and maturity.

The initial trigger could be strong and hence indulgence of it could be massive but to maintain it over a longer time is what is to be recounted and looked for.

For it to carry on even after many years in a marriage it’s essential that both the individual involved connect emotionally and spiritually to each other.

Indulging in its excess also doesn’t mean that it’s a smooth and a relationship to be gung ho about. Make sure it’s not the only thing that keeps your relation ticking.

Also the advantage of having a healthy bonding ensures a healthy life in terms of hygiene and body health.

It keeps you fresh, loved and wanted. Moreover it makes you efficient and more productive at work as the physical bonding lowers your anxiety or almost completely finishes it off relating to any infidelity or any complaints of loyalty from your partner at work place. It also builds your trust in each other and in turn the respect for each other.

Trust in a factor is also a vital issue and when these vital elements are intact then sacrificing for each other and taking out time for each other doesn’t seem tough. Another significant way of improving your physical bonding is by doing the basic and bare minimum of holding hands and being naughty at times.

Also doing things together like laying the table, having food and catching up on your favourite movie together enhances the physical level and hence the love.

Love is a feeling that completes us. But if there is absence of sex, even love gets dried up. People are too stressed to make love. Today we find the booming number of psychologists because of the increasing number of people seeking help with their relationships because – basically – they are having very little sex or none at all.

Understanding it
There are usually attractive, normal people who just can’t seem to get it together. And the usual reasons for this unhappy state of affairs include:
Stress due to work
Long working hours for one or both partners
Daily commuting
Feeling that life is completely out of balance
Resentment in the relationship

Fatigue
Unfortunately, technology is one curse which has resulted in ruining the sex life. Married couples are not the only ones being affected by the home invasion of wireless technology. Ask any upwardly mobile single and they’ll tell you that they are often too busy getting ahead in the boardroom to get busy in their bedroom.

Sometimes such couples try and arrange an appointment in the hope that things can be put right. It can actually be termed as a crazy state of affairs. But it can be solved if only they take being together as a top priority.

So, here are some hints and tips to help you to do just that.

Wonder and work
Run your mind back to those miraculous days at the beginning of your relationship. Remember how you used to wander round in a cloud of desire when you knew you were going to meet up that evening? Well, these things build-up for terrific sex.
So think ‘occasion’. Think ‘naughtiness’. And - most of all - think ‘time and space’.

Try to have sex not during the usual time; rather try to make it different simply by arranging it at a time which is new to you for having it. So, try and devote yourself to your partner.

Decide to see a film right after work. But even if you’re both employed in the same office, get ready separately and make your own way to the cinema so you can engineer a romantic meeting in the ticket queue. Do enjoy the film - but remember that the object of this exercise is to enjoy each other more. So, hold hands and kiss and snuggle up together and have fun.

Get wild
Think sexy thoughts. Thinking about sex is one of the most powerful ways to psych your self up for it

Couples who not only work, but who are parents too, have double the problems when it comes to romance. But this is a period in your life when you really need all the close and loving contact you can get.

Speak out
Feeling connected to your partner is very important as it plays a large part in the desire for physical intimacy. To create a stronger bond an honest communication about how you feel and what you need sexually helps you create the environment and leads to sexual intimacy.
Taking out time for your self is the foremost thing, it is only after you feel free and relaxed, you can indulge in lovemaking with full heart and soul.