If you are in a relationship and things are good, the whole world seems complete and a fun place to you. But how about adding some more fun to this exciting and satisfying relationship? Let us read about some great ways by which you can have fun with your boyfriend.

1. Find the lyrics of his favorite song (nothing better than a common favorite of you two) and ask him to sing along with you.

2. There is no better to be extremely close to him than by watching a horror movie and hiding in his arms. The cozy touch will soon be the starting point of a steamy session.

3. You can give him a hint of being close by touching him behind the neck or ear gently.
4 . Get close to him so that he can smell your breath but do make sure that the breath is worth smelling.

5. Tell him that you really like his presence and get mesmerized when he looks into your eyes.

6. Touch his forehead or hair lightly with the fingers and smile while you are doing this.

7. Place candles around the bathroom and scatter flower petals everywhere. Now, ask him to join you for a bath and offer to give him a back massage to heat up the things.

8. Intimacy and sex are great appetite suppressants and all other things can wait if things heat up between the two of you.

9. Always make a point to touch at least one part of his body (hands, elbow, knee, or shoulder) when the two of you are sitting together.

10. If you want to initiate a kiss, it is good to start from the ear or face and not on the lips. Now proceed to touch his chest and unbutton a button or two. Stop there for a while and kiss him again and then start the unbuttoning procedure before he is all before you.

If you think that sex with protection is too boring and not intimate, it is time for you to think again as there can be fun with protection, especially when it comes to lovemaking.

Orgasms, intimacy, genital herpes, oral, anal, HIV/AIDS… sex today is a complicated blend of pleasure and pain. However, there is always a scope for erotic acts and “painful pleasure” when you try creative without ignoring the practice of safe sex. By avoiding the bedroom for sex and trying new sex positions, you can surely go creative with the protection still on so that sex is all about protected fun and not mistakes that can ruin your life. This will not only protect you and your partner from giving birth to an unwanted child but you will also be protected against life-endangering diseases like HIV and AIDS.

It is always recommended to have a word about sex with your partner or a helpline before you decide to make love. If your partner does not want protection and gives you enough excuses to avoid it, it is better to kick him or her out rather than putting yourself in danger. Even if the decision to make love is sudden, it is always good to hold your emotions for a while before any of you can arrange for a condom. Avoid contraceptives unless you can’t arrange for the condom and don’t want to wait any further.

Most youngsters commit the mistake of indulging into sex because of peer pressure. Some even abuse drugs or alcohol before deciding for lovemaking. Alcohol and drugs interfere with decision-making and can even lead to date rape. Moreover, a decision to have sex due to peer pressure is a seriously bad idea and should be avoided. If your partner is blackmailing you emotionally to have sex, it is good to talk straight to him or her that you are not just ready for it and need time before you make a decision. If he or she is not ready to hold things for a while, he or she is not just worth it and if patience can be observed, you can surely make a good decision for yourself.

How is your relation with your partner going? Is he troubling you? Or you do not feel happy with him anymore? There are some signs which show that you are not in a healthy relation. Read these signs and verify them with your own relation with your partner:

1) Follow your instincts: though he loved you a lot in past and you both made a lovely couple
but now you lately sense that love and attraction is fading away. Discuss it with him; find out what is not going right. It is best to identify and clarify expectations.

2) Verify your interest: Indifference can act poisonous to your relationship. If you find your guy is not interested in you anymore, and he makes excuses to go out with you or to meet you. Then you should verify whether he is interested in you anymore or not.

3) Check your intimacy: are you both enjoying your relation? Are you personal enough to be happy together? If your partner gives explanation to be intimate and ignores your playful behavior, it is clear that he is not interested in this relationship anymore.

4) Does he abuse you? If he does, then I think its troubling you somewhere. Abusive relationship should not be tolerated. Walk out the moment he abuses you physically or verbally. A man, who doesn’t respect you, definitely doesn’t deserve you.

5) Doesn’t he surprise you anymore? He was the one who used to surprise you every now and then. If he has stopped everything now then you should know that something is erroneous. Being busy at work is reasonable but avoiding calls or catching up on weekends for movie or coffee is surely his way of brushing you off.

6) Is your partner controlling your acts? Some people want everything to happen according to them. They always want things their way and if it isn’t then they are morose. He is very dominating. Think twice, if you will be happy with such a person or will be able to enjoy your life.

7) Does he always look for your mistakes? Easy way of getting rid of a partner is by constantly finding faults and analyzing them. Never let such individuals break your self confidence. Move on to a person who appreciates the way you are.

Now as you have seen that these are the signs which tell you that you are in troubled relationship.  Just forget this relation. Though that is not easy but life has to move on.You are worth a better partner. Just stay happy..!!!