Kiss is a form of exhibiting affection between two souls in love. Cupid does shoot arrows and the starlings sparkle in the night sky celebrates the union. For some it is just locking lips with an empty cream pitcher ,an airtight o-ring that rated zero on romance scale; while for some a full of shared passion and luscious promise confirm their initial attraction. Kiss is made into sensuous frames in every movie, both timid, nervous, excited but with a thousand apprehensions in each other’s hammering heart.

First kisses are suffused with magic. The anticipation, the build up, the darting looks the butterflies in your stomach. That first momentous moment when your lips touch and the whole world fades away.

Nobody can clearly explain the actual feeling when you have your first kiss. It is one inexplicable romanticized moment of being in love. A hesitant pause when at nose’s distance and then a kiss that is executed with the greatest of dexterity and finesse. You blush as well fret at the same time and ride you into an unworldly atmosphere of romanticism.

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. The first kiss comes with the signal of prophet that you two can be in unison for the rest of your life. It’s true that a little spark of current passes thru both the bodies when 2 lips get in contact and this spark increase the level of relaxing hormones and hence acts as a good stress buster. It is the proof that you and your partner kissing have reached a milestone and your physical relationship is really heating up.

Women judge men on their first kiss. For men it is a means to an end while for men it is a crucial element in finding a partner. Women are more likely than men to take into account the smell of their partner’s breath, the taste of their mouth and state of their teeth during a kiss. A romantic kissing may have evolved as an adaptive courtship strategy that functions as a male assessment technique, the way of maintaining bonded relationship.

For a kiss can never be absolutely defined. Because each kiss is different from the one before and the one after. Just as no two people are alike, so are no two kisses alike. For it is people who make kisses. Real, live people pulsating with life and love and extreme happiness. The bottom line is that a good first kiss doesn’t make a relationship but a bad kiss can kill the relationship.

So I am finally answering the question I have been asked at least a hundred times now – how to kiss like a pro!

Alright let me start with where women actually goof up.

Now suppose you’ve just had an amazing date with the hottest man you’ve ever laid your eyes on. And yes, this is your first date with him. You’ve been ardently trying to have this guy go out for a date with you and tonight was the night. You tried to be your best today - kept your cool, acted confident, and your humor made him laugh too. So you’re now feeling a bit confident of the fact that you were able to impress him. At least so far! And while watching the movie rest your head against his shoulder, so you know he’s digging you. You feel on top of the world and assume that you are already three parts ahead in the game.

It’s now time to offer him a cup of coffe at your home and you walk him up to the front porch. You gently hold his hand and see a soft smile on his face. Your heart rejoices and just as he tells that he’s had a lovely evening, you know its time!

You are a woman of actions so you lean in for a kiss just at the right time while he meets you halfway. And what follows next? What follows next is before he can even breathe, you ram your tongue down his throat in order to show him how confidently aggressive you actually are. But oops, you forgot about that piece of chicken wing stuck between your teeth. And despite him indicating you by coughing that you are gagging him off his breath, you go on and on and on. To make situation worse, you reach behind and grab his rear as you further lock your lips more firmly with his.

From the next day on, you see that he stops returning your calls and you never get to see him ever again! You think that he’s found someone else perhaps but the fact of the matter is he has judged you with that one kiss of yours and now he doesn’t even want to hear your name.

Now need I say what is that you are supposed to do to impress him? Yes, you’ve guessed it right. Please be as soft and slow as you can without rushing in! Men love women who are gentle with them. It shows that they respect women and are in no hurry to show their machismo with something as romantic as a kiss.

So now that you know this, keep this thing in mind if you really intend to win the men with your prowess!

We continue. We go out for linguini each Friday night, have a sleepover each Saturday night, and persist on as though we might actually want to be with this person on an everlasting basis. Except, of course, that we do not. And it’s not that there’s anything incorrect with him, except that he’s not “The One.”

Then, we begin to think of our alternatives. What will take place if we break it off? Staying home on Saturday nights for the respite of our lives? Getting caught at the singles table at every wedding for the rest of the decade? A forlorn, distressed life of Wheel of Fortune, reclusive, TV dinners and rescued pets?

So we hang about. After all, it’s not really that awful, right? Sure he doesn’t make your toes prickle when you kiss. Sure, she’s captivated to reality television. Sure, his clothes are well, detestable.

But here’s what happens when you hang about in a relationshipyou’re not meant to be in: Every Saturday night you’re with Mr. Right Now, is a Saturday night you’re missing in the midst of Mr. Right.

Imagine about it. While you’re gaping through another night of blah-blah togetherness, your ideal match could be circling the block.

Why do we stay with the current? Because not-exactly-perfect is a lot less terrifying than whatever is at the back door number three. Sometimes we agonize that if we drop the person we’re with that nobody superior ever will come along, and that we’ll misplace the best thing that has ever happened to us in hunt of the ever-elusive toe-curler that may not even subsist.

Most people think in their hearts that there is at least one perfect counterpart for all of us. I am no exemption: I met my ideal match the week after a three-year bland-as-white-toast relationshiplastly dragged itself to an end.

If you’re looking for something large to come into your life, you have to formulate room for it. And, in all equality, your King of Monotony may be someone else’s Prince Charming. All it takes is one daring step, one chance taken to catch the guy of your dreams.

Just step away from the materialistic world, and head out the door.