You know each one us carry an air about ourselves. It determines how we act, react, talk or walk and based on that we can easily judge what’s on the person’s mind, even though he stays mum. This is known as the non-verbal language which we all invariably impart in ways unique to our own selves. So let’s talk about the most common of them all confronted by women most often and need to be aware about!

Physical Contact!

This is easiest way to gauge what’s exactly on your guys mind when he meets you for the first time. I am not talking about men who are shy in here. They may never touch you even if they want to and you’ll know that but you ought to know the signals that men give in this regard while on a date!

If everything’s fallen in place (according to you) but your date avoids taking your hand or putting his arm around you, then this for sure is a sign of the fact that he may be uncomfortable or unsure about you. If further on, he avoids making an eye contact with you, his body posture is closed, is restless and is paying less attention to you, you should not waste your time to learn that something is wrong already. If this thing occurs more than once, then consider its time for you to set off your silent alarm.

So if you have your guy doing any of these, it is probably in the best of your interest that you do not continue with him any longer. This is an absolute obnoxious behavior and every guy should be man enough to accept what he feels, even if that costs him to be bitter on the face. Keeping your lady in dark is the worst thing a man can do to dishonor her!

I hope you got your question answered pretty well!

Well, you have landed at the right place if you want to save yourself from the dating ordeal if your guy displays body language stated as under!

Before taking off let me tell you that direct verbal communication is not the only way to know your partner effectively. You can gauge your partner only by observing his body language, even before he starts to speak. If you ignore this, you are likely you fall in a dump of confusion and regret at the end of it for not knowing the real him.

So here’s an instance telling you how to go about it!

Now the subject I’ll be talking about today is stiffened or closed-in body posture!

If you see your guy having a posture that’s too closed and he speaks only when you ask him a question or so, the reason behind this could be more than his shyness. If a guy is out rightly shy, you’ll know it in the first place itself. But if he is not and is displaying a body posture that doesn’t seem to open to you, you got to guess what’s on his mind!

Just think what do you do when you feel uncomfortable about something or with someone?

1- You fold your arms tightly
2- You straighten your spine
3- You cross your legs tightly
4- You turn your body away from the person you are facing
5- You try your best to lean away from the person you are with

On the contrary, if you like someone, you:Lean forward

1- Have your arms relaxed or lay them open to the person
2- Face the other person directly and look into his eyes
3- Maintain a posture that relaxed and at ease

I think you have answered your own query. The person is displaying a closed-in posture means he is NOT interested in you.

So if this is your first date with this person, it’ll probably be the last one too!

Whether you want to simply hook up with a guy or want a long lasting relationship with him through dating is a must know for every woman! Women are undeniably sensitive, soft creatures often tempted into things they’d never wanted to end up with. Hence it becomes imperative for them to first know what exactly they want from the relationship they are seeking.

Dating sites are full of all kinds of options for all kinds of people but before plunging in it, it is important that women know what are they stepping in and why!

Here are some dating concepts catching rage now a days!

Let’s find out what these terms exactly mean!

• Hooking up!

 ‘Hooking up’ means couples getting together only for sex. There is generally no  formal “dating” involved so there’s no emotional investment whatsoever!

• Friends with benefits!
 ’Friends with benefits’ refers to two people who are “friends” who may also have  sex. I mean it is kind of an understanding shared by the couple. So there’s an  apparent distinction between what they share and so called ‘dating’.
• Booty call!
 ’Booty call’ usually describes the act of a man or a woman calling up another  person to come over for sex. I’m sorry for having making this sound as such a  gross term but I sure can’t call it love-making. This is so because there is no  element of romance in this kind of arrangement, no compassion, no movies  together and no candle light dinners. The couple does not invest any time or  energy to know each other or spend any kind of quality time together. It is purely  physical and nothing more than that!
As a woman can you even define this activity (even loosely) as dating? Has this become a new way to be intimate for some of you? If yes, then it’s important to look at how is it going to meet your needs and align with your basic values as an individual.