The biggest gamble for a girl is guessing whether the guy she is flirting with these days in office is really in for a relationship with her. He might talk to you in the best of his spirits but if you have started talking to him, then not knowing whether he feels the same for you or not can be really frustrating. So wouldn’t it be great if you have something that helps you to read his mind in such instances? Well then, let’s move forward to know some signs rumored to show that a guy is really interested in you!• If you see the guy your name quite often while talking to you, it clearly shows that he loves doing so. It means that your name is music to his ears and therefore he feels nice whenever he speaks your name.

• If he touches you while passing through the hallway or gently taps you on the shoulder at your desk, it is not by accident that it has happened. These little things are ways of men getting closer to you or you may say a prelude to more intimate touching. So the next time he brushes past you once again, you must what’s on his mind.

• There’ll be times when he’ll ignore you at odd hours. Yes, men do that when they are not sure about what the girl feels for him. Men tend to get nervous about what to say or do on certain occasions and hence could be afraid that you may catch a glimpse of how he feels about you when you look into his eyes.

• If you two are good friends but he avoids telling you about his love life, this is a very conspicuous sign about the fact that he is interested in you. This means that he is trying to protect your feelings and wants to save any future opportunity of dating with you. So even if he spends a good amount of time talking to you, he may avoid telling whom he is dating or leave the key details out.
So here we are with some signs that may give you a clue that the guy is interested in you. So the next time you see your friend giving you a bit too much attention than the usual, you must know that he is in for something deeper with you. But you have to ensure that this is not just flirting if you are really looking forward to a serious relationship with his guy.

The most interesting part of the story is when it just begins. The first signs telling you that a smart, young guy is interested in you certainly tend to cause ripples in your heart. Sometimes the best things come to you in the most unexpected way and your life simply takes a 360 degree turn. You fall in love! Well, so we see that knowing that the guy likes you or is showing interest in you is the first thing that needs to capture your attention. Lest you respond in the same earnest in some way or the other, the guy won’t be able to step ahead. So how do you come to know that the guy is interested in you? Let’s find out!

Maintaining a good eye contact!
Well yes, a guy’s most common and an essential way of showing that he’s interested in someone is the eye contact he’ll establish with her. Men go by the visual appeal in a big big way. If they find a woman attractive, they stare at her. I mean they do look at her a bit longer than the usual. Then look at her again and makes sure that she catches you doing so. It is important to catch the gaze and reciprocate. Yes, if you like the guy too it is important to respond but in a subtle manner. And men wait for that too.

However, there is a belief contrary to this too. I have spoken to many guys who say that the genuine kindness they show to women in public is often misinterpreted as an indication of romantic interest. The reason I said that the gaze needs to be interpreted in the right way. Most of the times you’ll know because men have a hundred ways to make you believe what they want through their gestures.

The response!
So if you catch a smart lad gazing at you a bit more closely that the regular thing, look back at him and exchange a glance. If his gesture seems too inviting, a smile would play the cupid and look away soon after.

Keen interest in listening!
One thing you must know and that is men hate to get bored. If you see a man not bothering enough to lend his ears to you, you needn’t stay longer to know what he thinks of you. Men won’t listen to you until they have an interest in you. But if you see a smart, handsome lad you meet at the cafeteria interested in knowing about your work, the sports you are interested in and even your friends, you must know that he is not just interested but more than interested in you.

The Response!
So if you like the guy too and intend to move ahead, talk but also maintain a constant eye contact while doing so. You see, eyes can do a lot of talking that words can’t. Similarly if he is narrating an incident, looking at him while listening too is also as important. That will make him feel wanted and respected.

These are simple but essential insinuations that bring about a big difference in the way you react and perceive a particular thing. Lest you’ll find yourself caught unawares and the opportunity to build a beautiful bond will brush past you.