Thu, February 19, 2009 1:42 am By sarah
Regardless of whether our relationship is at the beginning stage or on the contrary it is a solid bonding, there are times when we search for what our partner wants from us. Even though he says that he loves you, this doesn’t mean he can’t ditch you the following day. The majority of men are ready for a life in duo.
How to become the ideal lover? That’s certainly a tough question.
Firstly keep in mind that men don’t like it, if enforced to do anything. They have a preference to decide things on their own. So you should not force him to clean the utensils if he doesn’t want to do this. You’ll only make it in opening a fight.
Another common error that women do is to become too domineering. Don’t forget, men like to think free in an association or at least to have the sensation that they are free.
You must confess that you don’t like it when he talks of his ex-girlfriend to you. You shouldn’t judge that he commits this for the reason that he still has feelings for her; belive it that he doesn’t do this with a reason; similar to each man on this earth, he would love to talk about his conquests.
Another recurrent difficulty in an affiliation concerns the phone. You start imagining thousand kind of stories and become mad if he doesn’t answer to you immediately. If you want to suffer later then do this otherwise stop doing this. Remember: men hate it, if they are controlled. Also, keep away from answering every time he calls you because men love mysterious women.
So what you be supposed to do in order to satisfy your lover? Following are some tips which would answer all your questions
You have to buy something useful for your own house, well you can go ahead and ask for his advice, and this makes him feel important and useful to you.
Forgive him yet if he makes an error. You can be upset but you must forgive him if he wishes and if he is sorry. .
Make his favorite dish. Even if you are not a great cook, sometime in kitchen can ve a good experience and also the reward would be great too.
Do not forget to surprise him, men also love surprises, buy him romantic gifts, they are moved by all this.
Try spending as much time as possible with him.