There’s a language that doesn’t need words. A language women have been using to their advantage since centuries and still continue to do so. In the present dating context, this issue needs a special mention because today’s times are about survival of the fittest. If you want to make a perfect impression on your guy on the first date, there’s no way you can do it without attracting him with your body language.

Let’s have a look at some tips regarding it!

Fluency is attaining the right body language not only has the advantage of attracting the right men but also cutting off wrong ones from your aura.

The Eye Contact!

Good eye contact is one of the most imperative measures to make an impression on the person. This gives a clear indication of the fact that you are a confident lady and completely in control of yourself. However, do not start staring on his face the moment you two are seated. The best way is to start off with some sidelong glances. Then gradually as the conversation flows, try establishing direct eye contact. If he turns to meet your gaze (which he will), immediately lower down your eyes and smile to yourself. This will indicate that you were watching him and are a bit embarrassed that he caught you doing that. This is a sure sign of interest and will give him enough cue to ignite his craving to know more about what’s going on inside you. Alright next, be bold and try holding his stare, flashing a subtle, open-lipped smile to tell him you like him in a way.

On the contrary, if there is a man eyeing you but you just not seem interested, the best way to show him this is to look away from him without looking back at him again. If you are completely put off with his demeanor when in conversation, start looking at the ceiling and all around the room. This will show your definite lack of interest in him. Where doing this might seem too rude but there are instances when you have to do it to ensure the guy does have a fair idea about what you think about him.

Thus you see, there’s so much you can convey to your man even without conveying a single thing verbally. God has gifted us with some great ways to express ourselves and women in particular should employ this to their best advantage.

You’ll get to read more of our tips on dating in our forth coming articles!

After the best you could do to bring back the passion and ardor you once shared with your partner, there is still something going amiss and you know not what to do. You love your mate like anything and you want to get back that sense of longing once again. Here’s an answer to your imbroglio!

The first thing you need to accept is that nothing remains constant. Time is transitory, we as people are in constant transition and so are our circumstances as well. Therefore as your bond with your mate deepens, you will undergo many experiences and stages in it when your romance may not be in its most active phase. The reasons could be anything – stress, work load, anxiety due to financial pressures, anything. In such situations, when we women see our partners losing interest in us, we try doing everything they like but still are not able to ignite their attraction for us.

Now the most important thing to be kept in mind here is that this in no terms means that love and the desire between you two has been lost. These are times when you have to not just think like a partner to your mate, but like a friend. Don’t we turn to our friends when we depressed about something? Why? Because we know that our friends will always have the compassion and empathy to understand us and guide us through the issue.

This is exactly what you need to do for your partner in these circumstances. Understand him! This may require a little more patience on your part but the best way is to let go off your expectation from him for sometime and be with him as a supporting companion. When your mate will see you are trying to be so considerate, he will automatically divulge his problems to you so that you know the reason behind his being so disparate lately. On the other hand, if instead of trying to know the reason behind his changed attitude, you start blaming him for his unlike behavior, he will only try to move away from you. Unless your partner feels that you really want to know what is going on in his life, he won’t share it with you. Your understanding with him should be such that he himself comes to you shares his blues with you.

Thus the idea here is to be his best friend and never let him feel lonely or take refuge in his own secret world. All you have to do is be a little compassionate and act patiently whenever you see your partner behaving otherwise!

The Non-Verbal Language of Dating – as the name suggests, is the knack of communicating without employing any verbal measures of interaction. There have been myriad books and workshops talking about how body language that speak a great deal about what’s on your mind. Even if you speak something to the best of your ability, your gestures might be rendering a different story altogether if you don’t really know how to carry yourself in sync.

Elaborating this point, let me tell you that there are two ways in which you communicate with your partner. The first is the content, which includes what you say and second is the process which refers to everything else that occurs besides that. This is the reason I‘ve had so many singles reporting confusion to me when it comes to knowing what their date was actually feeling or thinking. On the surface understanding this language may seem a bit difficult to you but with time and knowledge of how it functions, you’ll be able to really fare well eventually.

To start with, let’s focus on the most prominent gesture in this regard which is eye contact!

Now when you are sitting and talking to your date, have you ever noticed how is he  looking at you? What gestures is he reflecting when are speaking to him or vice versa? A simple indication towards this is that when the eye contact is good, it means he is feeling comfortable talking to you and is interested in you. This shows that he is really involved in the communication and wants to be a part of it. It also reflects a person’s honesty and sincerity towards you. On the other hand, when you see your date having difficulty making an eye contact with you, this straight away communicates his
discomfort; absolute lack of interest or in extreme cases, it could be his shyness as well. You can find this out if you are seeing that the person is shy in general as well.

So the next time you go out for a date, observe this in your partner and you’ll know where both of you are heading towards. More in my upcoming articles on the same subject so keep reading and be good!