Believe it or not, most young women worldwide face the agony of an outright attack on their fertility if the ‘good news’ is not announced by them within 2-3 years after the marriage. This ‘attack’ comes, commonly, from older relatives who begin to cast anxious looks and try every single way in the “book of obvious hints” to make this felt, which is often disgusting to say the least.

One of the biggest reasons why couples delay pregnancy is financial or career standings. The world may want you to bring a new life to this world, but only the two of you know what the true reason for delay is and you just cannot satisfy the world at the cost of your life. However, things may start go ugly if it is discovered that the possibility of having children is bleak or absent. In 99 percent of the cases (if not 100), the woman is blamed though it may be the other way around. These are the times when sexual activities suddenly appear to be mechanical or unsatisfying, especially for the woman.

It is recommended that professional counseling must be sought-after on an immediate basis by the couples before feelings of suspicion, intolerance, quarrels, and misunderstanding make their way into the relationship. It is important for both the partners to understand that fertility is something that is beyond control and should therefore not be condemned. The news of infertility may break heart but it should not be enough to break the relationship at any cost.

If you and your spouse have been medically tested and the medical ruling is against you, the world is still very much yours and you can give a new meaning to life by opting for adoption. You will be surprised to know that adoption is gaining popularity with every passing time and you should feel privileged to give “life” and your name to a deprived child rather than blaming the destiny. If you have been experiencing mood swings or attitude problems due to problems in conceiving, it is highly suggested that you take some quality time to develop new interests - dramatics, sports, music, painting, or social groups. This will relieve the tension and you will be in a better frame of mind to make an informed decision.

Last but surely not the least the world including both of you will not end just because you do not have children. You must respect your partner and vice-versa and the world can be beautiful even with the two of you; it is just how you perceive things coming your way. After all, there is more than just motherhood for you to experience.

There is no and cannot be any magical formula to make things work in a relationship. But things can surely be done to ensure that relationships last for long and the love grows stronger with every passing day.

1)  It is a common perception that opposites attract. Well they do but things can possibly go wrong when the two of you do not share even a single thing in common. If such a situation happens in your life, chances are that you will want to get out of it sooner than expected.

2)  If you think relationships are conditional, you are heading towards separation even before the two of you get united. However, this does not mean that any of the partners should always be on losing side and the other one always privileged to be on winning side; it must be reciprocated.

3)  Most relationships in this world die due to lack of space. If you try too hard to maintain the relationship or want attention all the times, you probably are heading nowhere and the relationship will, sooner or later, die for sure.

4)  Trust is the most important factor in the success or failure of a relationship. If any of you cannot create or maintain it, it is better to get away than hoping for a miracle to happen. However, neither of you should see the other one with suspicious eyes all the times. We all are humans and integrity and loyalty are two aspects of a relationship that should always be respected and nurtured.

5) Last but not the least do not try to change your partner or impose your own ways on him or her as that will lead to suffocation in the relationship and things will die.

If you can see a future of the relationship between you and the partner, as he or she is now, there is every chance that things will materialize else it is better to get apart rather than being trouble for each other.

We get so involved with life, work and our own individual lives that we forget about our loved one and take him for granted. It becomes very important for you to take efforts to maintain the spark in your love life to make it interesting and enjoyable rather than dull and boring.

As your relationship starts to grow, it becomes monotonous and boring. Don’t panic each one of us have to face this at one point or the other in life. Here are a few tips that will help you spice up your relationship:

• Communication is the best to keep the spark in your relationship alive. Never carry on a relationship just for the heck of it. Talk out the problems you facing with your partner. Plan out and spent time with your partner to discuss the various issues.

• When the both of you come home from work always give each other a hug. This gesture of yours will make them feel loved and wanted and also that you are always there by their side. Show him your support.

• Boredom may also occur when you are spending too much time with your partner. Try and give space in your relationship. Never loose your own identity when you are in a relationship. Too often in a relationship we forget ourselves and try and imbibe the other person’s likes and dislikes. Do things which you like to do individually.

• Keep gifting things to each other. Giving non occasional gifts to each other will help you maintain the charm in your relation.

• You can also gift him things that would remind him of your first few dates together. Writing love letters might also be another innovative way to bring back the spice.

• To spice up your relationship with your partner you should always try something different and unique which he would never expect from you.

• To make your love life more exciting, take out some time and take a long vacation with your beloved so that you can fall in love with him all over again.

• Compliment your partner often to show him that you still notice him and also appreciate him for his achievements.

• You can join a dance class with your partner to spend time together and to relax with each other.

• Work on your appearance. Give yourself a different look.

If you really want to bring back spark and charm in your life go out of your way in expressing your love for him.