You probably have seen each other naked more times than you count and you surely would have tried everything at least once and you two still have a lifetime together ahead. Things may become monotonous with each passing day and you need to make efforts, just like your man, to keep the excitement factor in the relationship.

One of the biggest mistakes that wives, across the globe, make is not to initiate sex. They would always want the man to start things and arouse them and think that initiating is a clear sign of proving lust. But this negative and biased approach to a married relationship actually kills the relationship as men feel unwanted or start assuming that they are not good in bed.

It is important for you to note that making the first move does not make you horny or a loose-character girl in the eyes of your man. You may think that coming to him in sexy lingerie or unbuttoning the jeans or blouse is more than an initiative but that is not. An initiative is a kiss, touch, or anything that immediately leads to love making. Remember, men want their women to be aggressive and direct.

In most modern day homes, there are days fixed by women for sex. How bad that is for a husband whom you expect to fulfill all your needs on a daily basis. He is not all about sex but is love meant to be reserved for some days, shouldn’t it be spontaneous? If you are making convenience a condition for sex, you surely do not deserve to be in a relationship. Just because you have low libido does not mean that your husband has it too and then try to blame him for being horny. Gosh! Try understanding him, his emotions, his love, and yes his initiative to make love is more than just having sex – he wants to kiss you, cuddle you, touch you, give you pleasure, and bring out the best in the relationship. If he would not come to you to satisfy his needs (read sex here), were will he go? You should actually be proud of your relationship that you still mean and appear hot to him. Think on it for a while and you will get the answers by yourself.

If you are in a relationship and things are good, the whole world seems complete and a fun place to you. But how about adding some more fun to this exciting and satisfying relationship? Let us read about some great ways by which you can have fun with your boyfriend.

1. Find the lyrics of his favorite song (nothing better than a common favorite of you two) and ask him to sing along with you.

2. There is no better to be extremely close to him than by watching a horror movie and hiding in his arms. The cozy touch will soon be the starting point of a steamy session.

3. You can give him a hint of being close by touching him behind the neck or ear gently.
4 . Get close to him so that he can smell your breath but do make sure that the breath is worth smelling.

5. Tell him that you really like his presence and get mesmerized when he looks into your eyes.

6. Touch his forehead or hair lightly with the fingers and smile while you are doing this.

7. Place candles around the bathroom and scatter flower petals everywhere. Now, ask him to join you for a bath and offer to give him a back massage to heat up the things.

8. Intimacy and sex are great appetite suppressants and all other things can wait if things heat up between the two of you.

9. Always make a point to touch at least one part of his body (hands, elbow, knee, or shoulder) when the two of you are sitting together.

10. If you want to initiate a kiss, it is good to start from the ear or face and not on the lips. Now proceed to touch his chest and unbutton a button or two. Stop there for a while and kiss him again and then start the unbuttoning procedure before he is all before you.

If you have a look at the world, you will be surprised to note that even the most successful of all love relationships are ending in divorce. The worst part is that a huge majority of these couples are getting divorces over very stupid things, which raises the question as to why they enter into a married life in the first place.

Before we read any further, it is important to differentiate between strong and weak couples. While a strong couple sort out things, avoid arguments, and move on, weak couples (you can call them immature couples) split over stupid arguments and question every action of their partner even if that was of their own betterment.

Let us now access which things lead to a broken relationship and how they can be avoided.

Most couples expect too much from the relationship and their partner and do not communicate properly. A healthy relationship needs communication and a married relationship is no exception.

In-laws often create problems, knowingly or unknowingly, and must be requested to stay away from the relationship. The point is - if they cannot improve it, they have no right to harm it.

It is important for a couple to respect the feelings of each other and make sure that the partner is respected by his or her relatives, friends, or colleagues. An individual, who cannot give respect, whether he is from your side or hers, is best kicked out before he or she can harm your relationship.

We hope these tips on how to save a marriage will help you reclaim your happy life at the earliest.