Believe it or not, sex is an important part of love relationships. However, medical complications can prove to be a hurdle for the two of you when it comes to enjoy every second of the love making sessions.
In this piece of information, we will be focusing upon some of the most common sex problems faced by men and how they can be corrected.
One of the biggest worries for most men is erectile dysfunction that may be triggered by stress, depression, and exhaustion. This problem can be sorted out by a visit to the doctor so that the healing process can be kick started at the earliest.
Men are advised to indulge in regular exercises, at least three times per week. Men are advised to have uninterrupted sleep of eight to nine hours a day and should cut down on alcohol and cigarettes. Low libido may be a result of high blood pressure, obesity or anemia though most of the times this complication is related to stress. Joining a Yoga class or becoming the part of a healthy hobby such as painting can help you stay relaxed and focus on brighter aspects of life.
It is worthwhile to note that scientific studies in the recent past have suggested that couples who enjoy sexual intimacy with their partner on a regular basis display low levels of stress and depression. So, you have reason now to be with him in the bed? It will not only help in bringing the two of you together but will also relieve the two of you from complications that could have meant no or less satisfaction from sexual intercourses.
If your sexual life has taken a beating in the last few days or months due to hectic schedule, it is time for you to access some love making tips and secrets. These sex secrets will help you reclaim your sex life in quick time.
Before the two of you go on the bed, keep some ice cubes in a bucket by the bed and run an ice piece along his neck, nipples, and lips to let him know what is coming his way. Try your hands to caress him wherever you can. If the two of you are short of sex ideas and positions, rent a lovemaking CD to get turned on really quickly and make love like never before.
It is good to include some dirty words while making love and make your voice lower and deeper while remaining in the bed. To invite him for a lovemaking session, you can just pull down your undies and pull up the skirt so suggest that you don’t even want to bother getting undressed and hungry for his love. It is always recommended that you take initiative in sex and does not always expect your man to take you to the bed. However, do not miss out on activities such as kissing, hugging, touching, and oral sex as parts of the foreplay before launching yourself into each other.
Last but not the least, both of you need to enjoy each other’s company and complement each other even if the lovemaking session is not so great the first few times.
You probably have seen each other naked more times than you count and you surely would have tried everything at least once and you two still have a lifetime together ahead. Things may become monotonous with each passing day and you need to make efforts, just like your man, to keep the excitement factor in the relationship.
One of the biggest mistakes that wives, across the globe, make is not to initiate sex. They would always want the man to start things and arouse them and think that initiating is a clear sign of proving lust. But this negative and biased approach to a married relationship actually kills the relationship as men feel unwanted or start assuming that they are not good in bed.
It is important for you to note that making the first move does not make you horny or a loose-character girl in the eyes of your man. You may think that coming to him in sexy lingerie or unbuttoning the jeans or blouse is more than an initiative but that is not. An initiative is a kiss, touch, or anything that immediately leads to love making. Remember, men want their women to be aggressive and direct.
In most modern day homes, there are days fixed by women for sex. How bad that is for a husband whom you expect to fulfill all your needs on a daily basis. He is not all about sex but is love meant to be reserved for some days, shouldn’t it be spontaneous? If you are making convenience a condition for sex, you surely do not deserve to be in a relationship. Just because you have low libido does not mean that your husband has it too and then try to blame him for being horny. Gosh! Try understanding him, his emotions, his love, and yes his initiative to make love is more than just having sex – he wants to kiss you, cuddle you, touch you, give you pleasure, and bring out the best in the relationship. If he would not come to you to satisfy his needs (read sex here), were will he go? You should actually be proud of your relationship that you still mean and appear hot to him. Think on it for a while and you will get the answers by yourself.