Women should look approachable enough for men that they feel comfortable in taking risk. For men they should showcase their masculinity.

1) Lock Eyes
If you’re flirting with someone lock your eyes for five or six second and then just smile and drop a gaze. Don’t stare the guy forehead for goodness sake. Just give him a hither look and then look away. Repeat this for a couple of times in ten to fifteen minute. He should notice it and eye contact is a signal of openness.

2) Smile
Smiling is the most effective criteria in flirting. Research says that smiling is the most important thing by which you can look attractive. Smile is the signal of friendliness. If you lock your eyes and smiles with a woman three or more times in an evening, you will receive a clear signal that she’s interested. Make your move, head on over and start up a conversation. If you don’t, somebody else will.

3) Be a Vampire’s Best Friend
Exposure of her neck is the famous flirting techniques. It can be done with a head tilt to one side, the classic hair flip, the over-the-shoulder glance - the asymmetrical position attracts attention, exposes your neck, and gives you the opportunity to lock eyes. The over-the-shoulder move is extra-effective because it’s sexy and it sends a signal to your target that they are worth a second look.

4) Preen Like A Peacock
When groom ourselves subconsciously when we’re attracted to someone and we use our gestures like smoothing our hair or clothes, checking our lipstick in a compact or straightening a tie. Toss your hair to one side. This classic move is a double whammy that combines preening and a flash of neck. 

5) Lip Service
Men and women are attracted toward red and moist lips as they gives a signal of youth, sex and fertility. women can wear red lipstick as it increase man’s heart and gives your lips a youthful color. They even make your smile more visible and your looks charmer. Glossy lips gives your lips a look of moist and kissable.

6) Cross Your Legs (Women)
Crossing your legs is fire lightning techniques if you are wearing high heels. It is a seductive act for men and it make them desire to see more. Another technique is slipping your heel out of your shoe and dangling them on your toes. This send a sexual message and mimics a woman’s curves and makes a man crazy.

7) Square Your Shoulders (Men)
Women are more attracted to dominant men who stand with their shoulder back. Men who have chocolaty looks and are too submissive to attract women should take out their Y chromosome out for a spin. It is preferred that men should wear bulkier or conservative hairstyle or clothing and speed your speech and gesture in more assertive way.

Let Your Feet Do The Talking
You want to make yourself approachable then they should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward. ”
For men, appearing more dominant effectively draws female attention. To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, and your toes pointing outward.

9) Be a Mimic
People mirror each other’s body language when they are attracted with similar gestures, voice volume, etc. Copy his/her behavior and if you are mirroring someone’s behavior then they’ll feel as the two of you are connected and are in tune.

10) Focus, Focus, Focus.
Focus all your attention on what you flirting target is saying, once you have started talking and maintain eye contact with a smile on your face. The nod and the head tilt - signal you’re listening to what the other person has to say. Smiling and laughing as it make ease and make connection. Finally, another effective flirting technique is low-level touching such as brushing the shoulder or elbow.

Look for the signs above, eye contact, low-level touching and laughing and you can know who is flirting with you.

1. Men are more sensitive than realize.
Men face harder time to overcome with the breakup than women do. They are naturally or biologically designed to process their feeling or emotions as women do. Just because of this men have a hard shell around them to protect their heart that keeps them from getting hurt. They don’t open their shell even if the women want them to but they open their shell only when they feel safe. They only feel safe and open their shell when they feel that their women understand him. They don’t have to agree with them (even though that is nice), but they need to convey that they have considered his opinion. Many women their man to open up with them and to begin talking with them but as they begin their talking, they take over. This talk ends up focusing on the women and then the man simply quits talking. Women are probably better at communication than men, because of this men don’t want to feel they are competing with you to talk. Help them out by listening and in time they will seek you out more.

2. How you think about yourself makes more of an impression on men than having a perfect body.
Its true that men don’t obsess about a woman’s body as much as women think. Women are less visual than men; men notice about a woman is primarily her ability to be at ease around men. There are many women who have stunning look but once they open their mouth and words are out, all the misconception are over. One of the best ways to act confident is to ask questions.   Someone who is eager to get to know us will always seem more attractive. Women don’t have to be clever or funniest but simply need to show interest in him and it is for sure that every man would like to date/ marry someone who is stunning and interesting. Yet many men tell me that they dated someone whom they did not initially think was their “type” but after they got to know them they couldn’t imagine being with someone else. A woman who feels she is a good catch will have come across has relaxed. That quality is what men long to marry.

3. Men respond to a woman’s invitation.
It is well known that women send the signals and men respond to them. Yes, sending a signal is who a woman gives the man a “go” signal. Men need some indication that a woman will say yes before approaching her. This is often not the case in bars where guys go up to women whether there is a “you may approach me” signal and they have terrible results. Women send signals whether they realize it or not, yet many women fear they will come across has “pushy,” or “easy.” Here is an “easy” way to let a guy know you are interested without walking up to him. If you see someone you are interested in, look at him and simply stare at him for five seconds. Remember to smile when you do this. I promise he will get the message. The rest is up to him but you will definitely have let him know that it is safe to proceed.

One of those male fantasies…if its rated well…. Women flirting and coming close…closer to men and that too the yumm way.

Repeated contact…Give him at least three clues to intrigue him to come up to you. See make the man as if its him who is flirting and not you…….because that’s something of use to…..you getting my point. But you can certainly give a smile…and let him come to you and throw a comment on his apparel. Hmmm he will be sure you interested in talking to him.

Whisper…something which catches attention and gives a wave through their body. And of course some interest…..flirt able interest.

Avoid sitting with women…If you have company, he may not bother you…stay alone to get a nice date for the evening. Treat men gently…If you treat a man who approached you and you didn’t want him to…be polite. You never know who is eyeing you without you knowing an\d might turn you down for some mockery you did after he left Irresistible that’s you!

Show off the skin a bit, look taller…high heels. And sit upright with a style to kill any man any day. And wear comment able earrings…something to start with….you can guess what I mean. Look over your shoulder…and give that un-missable smile. This position, I bet can never let any guy go away without getting interested or thinking that you are interested. Look at him from top to bottom and after you do so don’t forget your very own smile…killing smile.

Flirting is an art, which can be enjoyed well…and women can be an expert too, even if men are the one’s who excel in it…women wont stay behind and they are the one’s to be lured by a man and not the other way and the tips given above are the ones which make a man weak to follow the queen. Don’t forget flirting is fun and a fun way of connecting…. Have Fun!