Tue, December 30, 2008 11:50 pm By sarah
A fresh new year is on the threshold once again and just as we start our journey in the new one, let’s commit to make it even better than the older one! Let’s vow to remove all the glitches from our lives so as to share a bond stronger than ever before.
Every year brings with it myriad experiences – some pleasant, some not-so-pleasant ones and then leaves us at the threshold of a new one, to make a new beginning, a beginning of hope, better bonding and happier times. I’m sure each one of us thinks the same way but how do we actually make this happen? How do we really make a conscious effort to actualize our dreams about making our relationship ever so beautiful? Because we all know that thinking is one aspect and doing it the other. So let’s have a look at how both men and women make a conscious choice towards achieving distinction in their relationship:
The most important thing you need to actualize is considering your relationship and family to be your topmost priority. How many times do we really cancel our work schedules in order to celebrate special days with our partner? Every time we are asked about it, we are ready with an excuse or our work seems more colossal to us at that moment than the emotional importance of that occasion. In the New Year, make a conscious effort to avoid it because until you do that, you won’t to be able to feel the eternal bliss that comes with making your partner innately happy.
The second most important thing is put your hands and feet on and live all your vows to the core. This will greatly strengthen your bond and add a great deal of security to your relationship.
Resolve to contribute your absolute best in your relationship. Take care of little things your partner never expects you to even notice and see the change in your bond. You’ll feel innately happy to see the warmth in her/his eyes when you do this.
The most important thing couples in relationships even a decade old miss is understanding the emotional needs of their partners. Every individual has his or her own necessities based on his/her nature which needs to be rightly addressed to bring in a feeling of completeness in a relationship. This New Year, make a conscious effort to know what it is and be honest in your effort towards it.
Whether your relationship is in its nascence or a decade old, it constantly needs to be rejuvenated, nurtured and bred on passion, understanding and a common goal of helping each other grow into beautiful human beings. Why not make this New Year a witness to this beautiful beginning?