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The Non-Verbal Language of Dating – as the name suggests, is the knack of communicating without employing any verbal measures of interaction. There have been myriad books and workshops talking about how body language that speak a great deal about what’s on your mind. Even if you speak something to the best of your ability, your gestures might be rendering a different story altogether if you don’t really know how to carry yourself in sync.
Elaborating this point, let me tell you that there are two ways in which you communicate with your partner. The first is the content, which includes what you say and second is the process which refers to everything else that occurs besides that. This is the reason I‘ve had so many singles reporting confusion to me when it comes to knowing what their date was actually feeling or thinking. On the surface understanding this language may seem a bit difficult to you but with time and knowledge of how it functions, you’ll be able to really fare well eventually.
To start with, let’s focus on the most prominent gesture in this regard which is eye contact!
Now when you are sitting and talking to your date, have you ever noticed how is he looking at you? What gestures is he reflecting when are speaking to him or vice versa? A simple indication towards this is that when the eye contact is good, it means he is feeling comfortable talking to you and is interested in you. This shows that he is really involved in the communication and wants to be a part of it. It also reflects a person’s honesty and sincerity towards you. On the other hand, when you see your date having difficulty making an eye contact with you, this straight away communicates his
discomfort; absolute lack of interest or in extreme cases, it could be his shyness as well. You can find this out if you are seeing that the person is shy in general as well.
So the next time you go out for a date, observe this in your partner and you’ll know where both of you are heading towards. More in my upcoming articles on the same subject so keep reading and be good!
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