The most important thing for a relationship to work is the trust factor. That is what determines how understanding you are to each other and how much you feel for each other. Trust can make and break relationships and it does. We have often heard relationships and marriages breaking up over infidelity. There can be many reasons, which end a relationship or a marriage, but cheating is an unforgivable offence as cheating cannot be condoned. Whether your boyfriend flirts around with another girl or your fiancée plays around with other women during the engagement or it’s your husband having an extra marital affair, the ramifications are immense. It all leads to messy confrontations followed by break ups and an ongoing sense of hurt and betrayal. It is hard to imagine the man you love is cheating on you, but once if you get over the initial intensity of emotions and start thinking practically, you feel foolish. If there is one thing a human being hates, it is to be made a fool of. You will feel pathetic if you start thinking that your man was cheating on you behind your back while you still loved him beyond doubt.

So, how would you know that your relationship is for real or not? Here are some ways you can follow: -

When your partner starts working late very often.
If your mate usually comes back home on a particular time but suddenly starts coming late consistently then there is a problem. Getting late for some work overtime once in a while is pretty normal for the working class, but if its consistent then there is no harm if you put up some questions asking the reason why he is late. There might be an office project that makes him work late, but a few questions can be put up. If the reasons are lame and meaningless, then the alarm bells should ring!

If he starts getting defensive
In a relationship or marriage, two people share their lives with each other and everything included in it. If you ask something to your mate and he doesn’t seem interested to answer any of the few questions you put up and starts getting defensive over it then there might be a problem.

If he goes out with his friends exclusively
If he goes out very often saying that he will be meeting his pals over lunch or dinner and refuses to take you with him saying things like “you might get bored as its guys only” then try checking or asking casually about the whereabouts of some of his so called close-friends. Be very casual when you ask, as you don’t want him to know you are doubtful about his loyalty.

If he spends lavishly without any reason
If his credit card bills suddenly start reaching the sky and he is not so clear in answering if questioned about it then you have to get cautious as he might be shelling over some other woman.

Check out the above facts and judge your partner well.

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